Shygirl15 Posted July 17, 2008 Posted July 17, 2008 I'm just curious. I have had my profile up on one online dating site for about 4 months now. Why is it that 98% of people who hit me are of different race, mainly caucasians? I have average/thick body with curves and my picture clearly say so, I thought most caucasians like skinny types?? I received only about 2% of my own race showing interest with me. Perhaps out of desperation for black guys' attention, I might have ended with no-so-good ones at some point. And this happened even when I had put my potential date's racial preference as black/african descent. When I ask them what picked up their interest, they all say my profile sounds real that the rest. So what do we have here? That caucasians take time to at least read while my black brothers look at the pics and think my black booty is not big enough for them?? Anyway. I love all races inspite of being called a racist in my previous thread. I work in an international organization where 85% of 15,000 staff are mixed nationals. However, I have never dated outside of my race, and just recently I realized maybe I'm still not ready for that yet. Questions: - Do we date our own race just for social acceptance but secretly desire to be with people of different race? - Do we genuinely like/love people of different race, or is it just our deepest dark desires to do the filthiest sexual acts with people of another race that makes us date them?
trubella Posted July 17, 2008 Posted July 17, 2008 i thought you said you had a date with a wht guy in the last thread.
Author Shygirl15 Posted July 17, 2008 Author Posted July 17, 2008 i thought you said you had a date with a wht guy in the last thread. That's when I knew I wasn't ready..
Lizzie60 Posted July 17, 2008 Posted July 17, 2008 - Do we date our own race just for social acceptance but secretly desire to be with people of different race? Not at all.. I don't mind other races.. in fact I love it. I am currently dating an East Indian guy... - Do we genuinely like/love people of different race, or is it just our deepest dark desires to do the filthiest sexual acts with people of another race that makes us date them? I have a preference for black guys.. gosh they're HOT!!!! I love black male there is something sooo freaken hot about them.. something animalistic.. sexy... love ...love .. love them...
woods321 Posted July 17, 2008 Posted July 17, 2008 You answered your own question and so did Lizzy She thinks black men are "animalistic" lol.. Is that a compliment? Like animals?
bigmanpayne Posted July 17, 2008 Posted July 17, 2008 You answered your own question and so did Lizzy She thinks black men are "animalistic" lol.. Is that a compliment? Like animals? no! and dont get me started on why it isn't a compliment! that is a topic for another thread...
trubella Posted July 17, 2008 Posted July 17, 2008 hmm. guess it didnt go so well.. my experience with dating sites was similar to yours- mostly wht men contacted me, i think its alot easier for them to make contact with women outside of their race online compared to real life when theyre out and normally wouldnt approach you in fear of rejection. i think alot of the guys that did contact me had this idea of what black women were like based on hearsay from other men that got to try "black" i've even had some tell me they were looking to try it out(Experiment) kinda makes you feel like a lab rat=) but there are some who are genuine, not many. (and no not all whities like skinny chics)- if that was the case my guy wouldnt be with me
KinAZ Posted July 17, 2008 Posted July 17, 2008 Everyone is different, so everyone has different reasons. For some it is just a fantasy, and sometimes a fantasy for a rather casual situation. "I wonder what it would be like to be with someone of this race." Usually, it seems that those are the reasons of those who are more isolated socially, in that their closest associations and such are mainly with people of their own race or ethnicity. For them, other races are more "exotic" and taboo. Some stick to their own race because of reasons of comfort. Sometimes it's merely social experiences that would keep them from dating someone of a different ethnicity, and other times, they assume that there might be too many differences, or that the other person might not wholly accept them. As far as why you're attracting more white men than black men, it could be that these men are looking for something exotic, and it could be based on your profile content, and how much you may or may not have in common with who on average. And then there's another theory about color. I'm not sure what shade you are, but the men I attract most are usually much lighter than myself (often pale) or much darker than myself. I'm not sure if you've noticed any patterns there, but that could have something to do with it.
Jake Barnes Posted July 17, 2008 Posted July 17, 2008 You answered your own question and so did Lizzy She thinks black men are "animalistic" lol.. Is that a compliment? Like animals?Yeah I noticed that too and I think theres the unspoken dark psychology of many white women displayed for you in all of its glory
Lizzie60 Posted July 17, 2008 Posted July 17, 2008 You answered your own question and so did Lizzy She thinks black men are "animalistic" lol.. Is that a compliment? Like animals? it is a compliment... like there is something so hot about them.. so crude.. so raw.. so sexy.. anyway.. I know what I mean..
Jake Barnes Posted July 17, 2008 Posted July 17, 2008 it is a compliment... like there is something so hot about them.. so crude.. so raw.. so sexy.. anyway.. I know what I mean.. I think you already stated exactly what you mean
woods321 Posted July 17, 2008 Posted July 17, 2008 Most of it is taboo.. If you go to Brazil, you see the whitest European men with the blackest Brazilian prostitutes you would ever see. Do they have tons in common? They have nothing in common other than sex. I actually read the same about white European women going to Africa on "Sex tours".. Do they talk about politics and the meaning of life? No, they have sex.
trubella Posted July 17, 2008 Posted July 17, 2008 you might wanna try a dating site thats exclusively for african americans. my cousin had some luck with blackplanet.com
Lizzie60 Posted July 17, 2008 Posted July 17, 2008 Most of it is taboo.. If you go to Brazil, you see the whitest European men with the blackest Brazilian prostitutes you would ever see. Do they have tons in common? They have nothing in common other than sex. I actually read the same about white European women going to Africa on "Sex tours".. Do they talk about politics and the meaning of life? No, they have sex. And???? what's wrong with that? I love 'chocolate' lolli*ock...
bigmanpayne Posted July 17, 2008 Posted July 17, 2008 i have been harping on this forever. i hate it when people limit themselves to one race or another. how can you find someone truly compatible with you if you are only picking from a limited pool? i have a profile on a few dating sites and the same thing happens to me. the opposite race contacts me 95% of the time. it is weird. i wondered about it for a while, like... are black women just scared of a down to earth hard working black man or what? sometimes i think that people date other races for other reasons which upsets me. i dated a white woman before and i think she only dates black men for drama... sounds stupid but i think she seriously does that. she wont date white men, and besides myself she only dated bottom feeder black men. i didnt give her the drama she needed so she split. i dont want this to get to "racial" so i guess i will stop here. tell me where your profile is... i'll give you some attention
Lizzie60 Posted July 17, 2008 Posted July 17, 2008 you might wanna try a dating site thats exclusively for african americans. my cousin had some luck with blackplanet.com hum... interesting.. thanks..
bigmanpayne Posted July 17, 2008 Posted July 17, 2008 you might wanna try a dating site thats exclusively for african americans. my cousin had some luck with blackplanet.com i am black and i attract mostly white women on black planet. its funny.
Lizzie60 Posted July 17, 2008 Posted July 17, 2008 i am black and i attract mostly white women on black planet. its funny. Well here you go!
woods321 Posted July 17, 2008 Posted July 17, 2008 How would that sound if a man said that? "I like black girls, they remind me of animals"
bigmanpayne Posted July 17, 2008 Posted July 17, 2008 Well here you go! you are crazy. i am too much for you... or is it the other way around?
trubella Posted July 17, 2008 Posted July 17, 2008 i am black and i attract mostly white women on black planet. its funny. hmm my cousin never had that issue.i dont know how it works but can u mark down racial preferences with your profile?
bigmanpayne Posted July 17, 2008 Posted July 17, 2008 How would that sound if a man said that? "I like black girls, they remind me of animals" thank you. that just isnt right...
bigmanpayne Posted July 17, 2008 Posted July 17, 2008 hmm my cousin never had that issue.i dont know how it works but can u mark down racial preferences with your profile? i dont think so on black planet. i think you can on some others, but no matter which ones i am on, i attract mostly white women - i am not complaining though.
Lizzie60 Posted July 17, 2008 Posted July 17, 2008 How would that sound if a man said that? "I like black girls, they remind me of animals" Well if it reminds him of cute little puppies.. then it's all good... it depends in what context it is said..
Sks Posted July 17, 2008 Posted July 17, 2008 Going to Africa and having sex is like playing Russian roulette with a cylinder 5/6 of the way full. Seems Lizzy likes being dominated and humiliated, to be ****ed like an "animal" using her words. Naturally you want to reproduce with your own color, to say you don't means their is something wrong. Its equivalent to a donkey wanting to breed with a horse, its not natural but it will work. You look for things that are exhibited to indicate health, naturally being Caucasian as a Caucasian person and Black as a Black person is one of those traits. A white person wanting to breed with a black person doesn't make sense to me, a black person wishing to breed with a white person doesn't make sense either. Both are exhibiting traits which do not match up with that of health for their specific race/color.
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