TrustInYourself Posted July 17, 2008 Posted July 17, 2008 One of my old girlfriends who is married contacted me and we've texted a few times as friends. Should I continue this, even though I'm separated? I am not sure but I feel like I'm crossing lines here.
justaman99 Posted July 17, 2008 Posted July 17, 2008 Why would you be crossing the line? You're just talking, right? I talk to one of my exs that is married. Nothing wrong with that and it's completely casual. Now if it moves to something more sexual, or meeting behind her husband's back that's a different level.
Author TrustInYourself Posted July 17, 2008 Author Posted July 17, 2008 Hmm, I doubt that would happen. However, I still have my doubts. I want my wife back and this is probably not the way to go about doing it. Drama, drama, drama. Oh well, she hasn't texted me back in a day or so, so I'll leave it at that.
HeatherAngel Posted July 17, 2008 Posted July 17, 2008 Weird that this came up today - I had coffee tonight with my boyfriend from high school - who my husband NEVER wanted me to have contact with... (I guess what's good for the gander WASN'T okay for the goose, in his mind!) It felt weird. I felt a little uncomfortable, and even more so when he admitted he hadn't told his wife where he was going. I will NEVER be the 'just a friend' that's being kept hidden - I hated her, DO hate her, for getting into my relationship, and I will NOT do that to someone else. Maybe it's okay, but it didn't feel it for me, even before I knew he hadn't told his wife. I'm still married. And I still hope to reconcile with my husband. And so, I will NOT be seeing him again.
justaman99 Posted July 17, 2008 Posted July 17, 2008 Good for you Heather. I admire your strength and respect for yourself and your husband here. I wish there were more people like you out there who THINK about these things. -Just
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