My_Other_I Posted July 16, 2008 Posted July 16, 2008 Hi all! I would like to ask for different point of view as I can't see the truth while blinded by emotions. I've known of this guy for many years. We never really hung out but stayed somewhat in touch through occasional emails. We had been talking about going out for a while and finally we went out a little over a month ago. Things were great, we had good laughs, good conversation. Second time out we kissed, the third time we went camping. We would hang out a couple of times a week. For the 4th of July he invited me to his parents house several hours from town and I agreed. We had a great time, slept in the same bed. Shortly after the trip we watched a movie. At this point (a month after our first 'date') I'm more than ready to give it up but that night didn't happen, either. His friends have been in town now and he's invited me to hang out with them but I couldn't make it. He came to my work to say hello instead. We made plans for this coming Fri but I haven't heard anything in few days. Did I wait too long? Am I over-reacting/over-thinking things? Are we doomed to be 'just' friends, is he busy with friends (a text message doesn't take more than 30 seconds ,does it?), is he scared, not interested? A slow moving relationship - how bad is it for development? How slow is too slow? Thanks for your opinions.
amymarieca Posted July 17, 2008 Posted July 17, 2008 It seems as though this guy is interested and you two are having a good time. You are overreacting a little- us women all do it! Don't try to over analyze things and just let it happen. If you are concerned about the plans for Friday, why not just text/call him and ask him instead?
Author My_Other_I Posted July 17, 2008 Author Posted July 17, 2008 Thanks :-) I know he is not going to cancel our plans. I guess I am just insecure. This is way different from anybody else I have dated before and it creates confusion. I'm worried i will mess up - probably because I really like this guy. At 30 I get the case of giggles too often and I still shake every time I see him. I was just curious how long a guy is willing to wait before me slowly slipping through the cracks into the 'friend zone'.
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