TheSilentType Posted July 16, 2008 Posted July 16, 2008 It could be your ex, any past partner that you liked, or your current partner What was it that made you want to be with that person? Don't say something generic like a combination of looks and personality. I mean why them over anyone equally as good (equally as attractive, smart, etc) Was it a quick attraction or something that slowly grew over time? What do you look like physically (hair, eyes, height, etc) and what did you partner look like physically? (not meant to be superficial, but more like does like attract like or do opposites attract?)
tanbark813 Posted July 16, 2008 Posted July 16, 2008 My gf and her friend walked into the bar my band was playing at in the middle of our show. She's 5'2", curvy tits and ass, pale skin, black hair (dyed that way, she's natually a blond), and steel blue eyes. She was wearing a black corsette-type top, black mini skirt, and thigh high black fishnet stockings with those straps on the upper thighs that hold them up. She also wears squarish, librarian-style glasses. It was definitely a quick attraction. After we got done playing I went over to talk to her. Once I got to know her more what attracted me further was that she's very straightforward, not flaky, very smart, funny, and extremely witty. She's probably the wittiest girl I've dated. We also both have warped senses of humor. I already described her looks above. I'm 5'6", 165, pale skin, dark brown hair, blue eyes. I look like my avatar, sans goatee. I also have a somewhat recent pic in my profile.
Trialbyfire Posted July 16, 2008 Posted July 16, 2008 What was it that made you want to be with that person? He's a smart, funny guy. Was it a quick attraction or something that slowly grew over time? A fairly quick attraction. He attended a number of meetings and during the meetings, showed his confidence, humour and intelligence. What do you look like physically (hair, eyes, height, etc) and what did you partner look like physically? Me: 5'2.5" brunette dyed to black, arse length slightly wavy hair. 105 lbs. Brown eyes although I do wear blue, green and grey contacts for fun. Relatively toned and slim. Current dating partner: 6'+, dark, dark brown slightly wavy hair, blue eyes, weight guesstimate about 170 - 180 lbs. Lean and fit.
trubella Posted July 16, 2008 Posted July 16, 2008 what attracted me to my current bf -i liked his sense of humor, very smart and bold-doesnt sugar coat things, just seemed sweet and genuine. i like how close he is to his family too, kinda takes care of them. truth be told i wasnt physically attracted to him at first, thought he was kindof average in looks compared to guys ive dated in the past. hes european, 6ft, 190lbs, green eyes, short black hair, pale skin, macho type, very casual -shirt and jeans type of guy. but his personality definitely won me over. my avatar is how i look, big tits, curvy shape, 5'6, long dark brown hair, caramel complexion, brown eyes(but i usually wear gray contacts)
jerbear Posted July 16, 2008 Posted July 16, 2008 What was it that made you want to be with that person? Don't say something generic like a combination of looks and personality. I mean why them over anyone equally as good (equally as attractive, smart, etc) I thought she was cute then when she asked a question. I thought the question was an intelligent one. I just started talking to her and made a connection. Was it a quick attraction or something that slowly grew over time? I liked her since the day I met her, chased her then ended it. One was 5'6" and the other was 5'2". What do you look like physically (hair, eyes, height, etc) and what did you partner look like physically? (not meant to be superficial, but more like does like attract like or do opposites attract?) I liked her calming and soothing voice. Her smile and laugh was yummy. Her T&A plus arms and legs are wow! Eyes are amazing. She also had a Type A personality and is in finance. Brunette too. Another ex had a similar personality but was a HS teacher. Hair was brunette. I've always had a thing for red head but pursued brunettes and those with jet black hair. Oh well...
konfuzd Posted July 16, 2008 Posted July 16, 2008 What was it that made you want to be with that person? His ability to have fun regardless of what people may think of him. His sense of adventure. The childlike glow he gets in his eye when he gets excited about something, no matter how little. Was it a quick attraction or something that slowly grew over time? Not an instant physical attraction, but I was drawn to his character right away. I knew of him already through a friend, but one night a group of us were at a bar where a local band was playing. As everyone just kind of sat back and watched the band from a distance, he broke free from his friends and rocked out right at the front of the stage. I just went up and joined him, his excitement radiated and we just connected in the moment. I didn't know I wanted to date him at that moment, but I knew I just wanted to be around him. What do you look like physically (hair, eyes, height, etc) and what did you partner look like physically? (not meant to be superficial, but more like does like attract like or do opposites attract?) He was a goofy looking character when I met him. 6'-3", skinny as all hell. He had a 9" long scraggly goatee and unkept blonde hair. Not what I'd call physically attractive, but when I look at him now a year later (minus the goatee) I think he's the sexiest man alive.... Perhaps a little biassed. I am 5'-9", shoulder length hair chemically brunette with blonde highlights at the time. Average build, blue eyes, and dimples that you could eat soup from.
mental_traveller Posted July 16, 2008 Posted July 16, 2008 Looks + fun personality and personal chemistry. "What was it that made you want to be with that person? Don't say something generic like a combination of looks and personality. I mean why them over anyone equally as good (equally as attractive, smart, etc)" I generally haven't met people with the same combination of looks & personality. So for me, that's all it was. "Was it a quick attraction or something that slowly grew over time?" Quick attraction, within the first 15 seconds or so. "What do you look like physically (hair, eyes, height, etc) and what did you partner look like physically? (not meant to be superficial, but more like does like attract like or do opposites attract?)" Generally I've looked very different from my gfs. My most recent gf, people always described us as an odd couple. In my case in personality and looks it's always "opposites attract", I've never met any woman remotely similar to me, let alone found one attractive. She was about 5'1, very curvy (32F and bubble butt), very attractive cute face. I'm 5'9, athletic, reasonable looking but not male model standards lol.
Touche Posted July 16, 2008 Posted July 16, 2008 What was it that made you want to be with that person? Nicest person I ever met. NO games! Physically my type. Smart, friendly, playful. Was it a quick attraction or something that slowly grew over time? Immediate attraction. What do you look like physically (hair, eyes, height, etc) and what did you partner look like physically? I'm 5 ft 4 1/2", light brown long hair, green eyes, thin. He's 6 ft and weighs about 185 to 190 with light brown hair and blue/green eyes. He's of a medium build.
Ruby Slippers Posted July 17, 2008 Posted July 17, 2008 What was it that made you want to be with that person? We had been online buddies for years, and we were finally both single at the same time, for the first time. He started putting the heat on and asking me to meet him, and after a lot of resistance I ultimately caved when he was near my city at a work conference. I loved that he was assertive, confident, sexy, funny, and smart. We had tons of chemistry. We are both musicians, and playing music together after listening to each other's stuff in mp3 form over the years was a blast, and so hot. We wrote songs about each other right away, and though he's quite masculine and not the sappy type, his was tortured and sappy. I loved it. Was it a quick attraction or something that slowly grew over time? Immediate, and it has remained steady. What do you look like physically (hair, eyes, height, etc) and what did you partner look like physically? I'm tall with an athletic build, blonde hair, blue eyes. He's also tall with an athletic build, brown hair, hazel eyes. He's definitely one of the most conventionally attractive guys I've been with.
portcitykitty Posted July 17, 2008 Posted July 17, 2008 What was it that made you want to be with that person? He was different from what I'd dated in the past. I felt a stronger connection to him than I ever felt with anybody. He was very peristent in chasing me...went on for several months. I felt bad for stringing him along for so long...it was not intentional, I was just very shy! The fact that he chased me for so long and never gave up on me made me feel special--I've never felt that much wanted before. He randomly kissed me out of the blue one day, and after that, I started taking him more seriously, and he's had me whipped ever since! He's smart, funny, witty, just an all-around nice guy. He's somebody I've always dreamed of having and seeing myself with. Was it a quick attraction or something that slowly grew over time? With me it grew over time, but it was obviously an instant attraction from him, from the moment we met. But now, I'm soo in love with this boy...I never thought I'd be this way back when I first met him! What do you look like physically (hair, eyes, height, etc) and what did you partner look like physically? We both have a lot of the same physical attributes: thick short dark brown (almost black) hair, brown eyes, a tad chunky, fair skin. He's 5'11 and I'm about 5'8 or 5'9. We're pretty much the same age (I'm 33 and he's 8 months younger than me). I think we look real cute together
Carmen87 Posted July 17, 2008 Posted July 17, 2008 What was it that made you want to be with that person? He wasn't out to impress me and let me see who he was. He was SUCH a gentleman towards me, showed genuine interest in what I had to say, and has this amazingly cute crooked smile. Was it a quick attraction or something that slowly grew over time? The first time I talked to him, it was immediate attraction What do you look like physically (hair, eyes, height, etc) and what did you partner look like physically? I'm 5'5", 118 lbs, light skin, green eyes, and dark brown curly hair. He is 5'9" 158 lbs, medium skin, very dark brown hair and eyes.
pandagirl Posted July 17, 2008 Posted July 17, 2008 What was it that made you want to be with that person? He was hilarious and witty and could keep up with my one-liners and always one step ahead of me; made me laugh for hours on our first date. Conversation was awesome and he had great taste in music, art, and was very intelligent. Was it a quick attraction or something that slowly grew over time? Honestly, not my typical guy I usually go for, but by the end of the date I knew I wanted to kiss him, but based really on his personality and how well we got along. What do you look like physically (hair, eyes, height, etc) and what did you partner look like physically? Me: long black hair, bangs, brown eyes, 5'3", 115lbs. Him: blonde hair, blue eyes, 5'11, slim but athletic build. Usually I go for dark hair and dark eyes. My friends called him "Sweet Valley High" boyfriend. haha.
FormerNiceGuy Posted July 17, 2008 Posted July 17, 2008 I think this is a fantastic series of threads and posts because it teaches men indirectly the very characteristics that attracts a woman...... there are patterns strewn throughout each of these posts....... anyways here's mine. What was it that made you want to be with that person? Don't say something generic like a combination of looks and personality. I mean why them over anyone equally as good (equally as attractive, smart, etc)It's hard for me to explain it, but I liked this girl because we seemed to click. I liked her and she liked me. I never had to feel like I had to act like anybody else. i just was being myself. I knew that this girl was cool because she was putting as much into the relationship as I was putting into for her...And she had a very "cute" appearance about her. She was pretty, petite and was very playful. She wasn't a long-legged woman with large breasts and azz, but she had this "cute" and endearing quality about her. I knew this girl was cool by just a vibe. She was genuine and she really cared about me. And to add to that, she had very "sweet" eyes. I really don't like women with "cold" eyes. I've seen gorgeous women that have "cold" eyes and these kind of women really lose my interest. I mean, I remember when I took this girl on date, she wanted to go to where i wanted to go to eat, because she wanted to make me happy. Was it a quick attraction or something that slowly grew over time? It actually wasn't a quick attraction. But it wasn't exactly slow either. I met her through one of her friends that I was actually dating......Long story short. I don't talk to her friend...or her anymore...and these two girls don't talk to each other anymore.... What do you look like physically (hair, eyes, height, etc) and what did you partner look like physically? (not meant to be superficial, but more like does like attract like or do opposites attract?)I will keep this confidential..but I will say that we were both the same race. Same eye color and same hair color. I'm about average height and 160lbs...Karen was probably around 5'4..as the top of her head was where my nose was. She never told me her weight...but she was a petite thing.
Lauriebell82 Posted July 17, 2008 Posted July 17, 2008 It could be your ex, any past partner that you liked, or your current partner What was it that made you want to be with that person? My boyfriend quiet and sweet, not like a lot of guys I have dated who are just looking to get laid. We also have a lot in common and when we are out together we have the BEST time. Was it a quick attraction or something that slowly grew over time? Yes, it was a very quick physical attraction, anyway. We have a TON of chemistry. We met at the gym, and I was attracted to him right away because he is muscular and ripped. I LOVE guys with muscles so seeing him lift. After we began dating, we did fall for each other fairly quickly as well (within the first few months) and while some say that is too soon, sometimes it just hits you like a ton of bricks. I had actually gone on a date with him about a year before we got back together, then he went on a study abroad trip to China and we kind of fell out of touch. We started talking a few months after he got back and he asked me out on another date, and the rest is history. What do you look like physically (hair, eyes, height, etc) and what did you partner look like physically? (not meant to be superficial, but more like does like attract like or do opposites attract?) He is about 5'10, brownish short hair (although he is a red head, but his hair looks brown), hazel eyes, about 180-185 lbs, and ripped and muscular as all hell. I on the other hand am a petite 5'2, brown hair and eyes, around 125-130 lbs, very athletic, curvy build. I look like I could be a teenager even though I'm 25. When I went on my first date with him he asked me if I was in high school lol. We have awesome chemistry, because we are soooo attracted to each other. It may also be because we both are very fit and keeping in shape is important to both of us. That is the best thing that we have in common. I know that physical attributes like that won't be there forever, therefore it IS important for us to have a good relationship and have things in common as well.
I Luv the Chariot OH Posted July 17, 2008 Posted July 17, 2008 What was it that made you want to be with that person? Initially, it was the fact that he was a vegetarian, really talented musician, and super adorable. After that, it was how ridiculously much we had in common and how well we got along. It's like we're trying to get to the same place in life or something. Was it a quick attraction or something that slowly grew over time? I always found him physically attractive, but that transcendent "attraction" definitely grew over time (and continues to do so, to this very day). What do you look like physically (hair, eyes, height, etc) and what did you partner look like physically? He: longish brown hair, hazel eyes, 6'0". I: longish brown hair, blue eyes, 5'4". I kinda think we look alike.
ahah2322 Posted July 17, 2008 Posted July 17, 2008 What was it that made you want to be with that person? his confidence his independence and the fact that he has immense self-respect i.e. put-his-foot-down-and-never-stand-for-nonsense. those are attractive traits and i know that i can never push my weight around with him. his drive. his ambition. his intelligence. his powerful social-skillz. i love these traits in men. and i grew to love him so much. Was it a quick attraction or something that slowly grew over time? seriously thought he was weird at first. it was initially an ego-trip thing for me. an attraction that grew after over a LONG period of time. now, I am just more in love and attracted to him as the days go by. What do you look like physically (hair, eyes, height, etc) and what did you partner look like physically? he's not good looking by universal standard. even considered ugly. below average height, bad facial complexion, not the slim, trim and fit type, smoothest hands ever. i like his body's natural smell- not fragrant, nice smelling, bad smelling or anything. it just smells like him and i can't get enough of it. my gosh, he's the most attractive person to me. i can't even logically fathom that. i look like how i look in my avatar.
Potatocakes Posted July 17, 2008 Posted July 17, 2008 What was it that made you want to be with that person? Nothing, he was an ass. Really mean to me and on some hard drugs(that I didnt know until after we started seeing each other.) He was actually drugged up most of the time he was around me and whenever I turned him down he would be really rude to me and brag about the girls he's gotten. Was it a quick attraction or something that slowly grew over time? We werent really attracted to each other, he wanted to date me for sex and I worked with his friends and he came in every night, all of them asking why I didnt just give him a shot blah blah.. got old figured it'd shut them up. What do you look like physically (hair, eyes, height, etc) and what did you partner look like physically? I was short(5'4), skinny, dark brown hair and green eyes.. He likes blue eyes, skinny, blonde hair in girls He was blonde, blue eyes, short(5'6) and an okay build I guess. I dont really have a preference I've dated all kinds of guys the only thing I like is tall guys but I could care less about body type/hair color/etc.
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