Do I go or try

[tatorz]

I was with my fiancee for 2 years. It was a good relationship except for her friends. Long story short she went off to another state to work with her father and as soon as she left the crap started. Her friends started telling her I was doing all this stuff I never did…even starting a hate myspace page about me then convincing her I did it to attract attention. They send me emails telling she is having sex with another guy then telling her I’m sending these emails myself..the list goes on a nd on. The problem is is that she is very dedicated to her friends and I respected that and still do but she is believing them over me. This one guy in particular who had a crush on her and was a roommate. He has been shwoing her all sorts of things that arent true. It’s been almost 3 weeks since I talked to her because I can’t answer the phone and hear more of what they have been saying. The last time I talked to her I told her I hope she was happy and I hoped she had a good life. After that I stopped answering the phone. She calls now but only once in a blue moon. I want to answer the phone but at the same time I don’t because I know she just wants to tell me they are telling her more stuff or she got an email that they said I sent. The most recent was that someone sent her boss an email trying to get her fired and low and behold guess who got blamed. I love her to death and have since we were kids…we were each others first loves and then because of childish things we broke up…10 years later she found me on myspace and from the first day we saw each other again we fell in love all over again. I didn’t want to lose her a second time but I don’t know what else to do..it’s not stopping and her friends seem hell bent on destroying me and my credibility. She is dating another guy now and her best friend is happy because he doesn’t cater to her like I did. It always upset her best friend that I took care of her so well. What do I do? Should I try and get her back or should I just let go and try to repair the damage these people cause my reputation? I was hoping that someone may have gone through this too...it seems so high school in behavior of them. Thank you

[tatorz]

After reading this forum I decided I didn't want to wait around for her to realize that I never lied about anything. If she didn't trust me enough to believe in me then maybe it's for the best. I deleted her off my myspace and changed my phone number. I'm moving in a few days to a new city and I'm just going to go start over somewhere new. Although I never got a response this forum helped me out a lot. To all of those who are waiting and doing the NC thing. Why wait and let life pass you by you could be missing the time of your life and could be missing the opportunity to find someone who actually loves you. It hurts yes and it causes sleeplessness (trust me I haven't slept in 3 days due to images that no one wants to see) and depression but if you get out there in the daylight and do some shopping or go see a movie then trust me it gets better.....yes it will always hurt like hell but at least you can say that you didn't die inside and wind up following around someone with just a small hope that they'll come back. Don't let someone else drag you along on the whim that they might get jealous or something..if they come back they come back...just don't wait for it...you'll go nuts