gothic_lova_1 Posted July 16, 2008 Posted July 16, 2008 k theres this girl i really like and she told me she likes me the same way but the thing is i don't wanna freak her out and i don't wanna ruin r friendship but at the same time i want a relashanship and she gothic and i'm 50/50 i'm also in2 rap so wat do i do?
quankanne Posted July 16, 2008 Posted July 16, 2008 set up a casual date, like meeting at a coffee shop (old days, you'd ask her to join you at the soda fountain!). That way you've got a public place to just kick back and talk. And sip coffee or tea or soda. Grabbing a dessert at a restaurant/coffee shop is also a low-key way to get to know someone; or find out what her interests are and meet her someplace that offers that (just be sure it's a place that you like, too, or you'll be uncomfortable)
Shygirl15 Posted July 16, 2008 Posted July 16, 2008 set up a casual date, like meeting at a coffee shop (old days, you'd ask her to join you at the soda fountain!). That way you've got a public place to just kick back and talk. And sip coffee or tea or soda. Grabbing a dessert at a restaurant/coffee shop is also a low-key way to get to know someone; or find out what her interests are and meet her someplace that offers that (just be sure it's a place that you like, too, or you'll be uncomfortable) Sip coffee or tea or soda on 1st date?? Boooring. But then I'm 31 so I would expect something bold like dinner and/or drinks. If OP and the girl are teenegers or in early 20s, then above advice may be appropriate.
refurb Posted July 16, 2008 Posted July 16, 2008 Sip coffee or tea or soda on 1st date?? Boooring. But then I'm 31 so I would expect something bold like dinner and/or drinks. If OP and the girl are teenegers or in early 20s, then above advice may be appropriate. Wait, stopping off at a coffee shop is boring, but dinner and/or drinks is bold? RF
HabitualDelirium Posted July 16, 2008 Posted July 16, 2008 Haha, coffee's more cost-friendly for young people, too. As for the poster, find something you feel you both would feel comfortable doing whether it's getting food, a movie, a concert, etc. Just make sure it has some time for you guys to talk and get to know eachother. You could also just simply suggest that you'd like to meet up with her casually and suggest some ideas you're interested in, and then give her the option to choose. Then it's teamwork.
Shygirl15 Posted July 17, 2008 Posted July 17, 2008 Wait, stopping off at a coffee shop is boring, but dinner and/or drinks is bold? RF That's what men my age or older do, on 1st dates. Which is why I said if OP and the girl are much younger, then they might as well hit Starbucks, it's fine, cost effctive too as well like HD said. I will have to think thrice if someone asked me to meet at Starbucks on 1st date..
bigmanpayne Posted July 17, 2008 Posted July 17, 2008 maybe i am getting old (i am still in my 20s) but why is your tastes in music such a big deal? i have dated people who havent liked my taste in music and we've been fine. is it a different lifestyle or something? educate me.
Green Posted July 17, 2008 Posted July 17, 2008 You should just ask her out and keep it from being weird by making out and turning her on and stuff
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