stlnsmile Posted July 16, 2008 Posted July 16, 2008 So tonight I posted pics from my recent vacation. In the pictures I was there with a guy friend.....yes just a family friend, cute as all get out though. They had not been up on my myspace for more than an hour...then a phone call comes in. My mom answered it......it was my ex, and he said "is M there" thats his new gf's name. WTF?????????? I know he probably had to look my number up:) WTF.......was this the Im going to call just to mess with your head call. Funny......its a joke to me now, and if I did talk to him, I would just say...Don't call here ever again. What a Pri**! I cant believe after all of this time......thats the phone call I get...him asking for his gf. BTW my mom said he sounded like cra*!
Peter_pan Posted July 16, 2008 Posted July 16, 2008 omg. wtf. how long has it been nc. not that you broke it. what a pri*k he is, doing that. im angry at him for you. im tempted to get fb again. but it does cause drama
LikeCharlotte Posted July 16, 2008 Posted July 16, 2008 Any chance he meant to call you and messed up the name, or call her and dialed your number? Awful. I'm sorry. I would absolutely be upset being in your shoes right now. He's an idiot, no matter what the reason is.
Grim Posted July 16, 2008 Posted July 16, 2008 my ex does that stuff its a control thing. they hate it when u ignore them
Author stlnsmile Posted July 16, 2008 Author Posted July 16, 2008 well its been 8 months NC w/ one slip up email from me at about 3 mo. Other than that, and him trying to say hello to me at school and staring at me on the courts, NC......I never spoke to him at school after first few weeks. NC 8 months. I know for a fact, he was calling on his new cell phone he got for college, he never had a cell before......I know he did not program my number into that new cell phone. So he had to be calling on purpose.
Grim Posted July 16, 2008 Posted July 16, 2008 everytime he gets a reaction he gets ur attention then he gets a point and another little bit of u. its a mind game
LikeCharlotte Posted July 16, 2008 Posted July 16, 2008 well its been 8 months NC w/ one slip up email from me at about 3 mo. Other than that, and him trying to say hello to me at school and staring at me on the courts, NC......I never spoke to him at school after first few weeks. NC 8 months. I know for a fact, he was calling on his new cell phone he got for college, he never had a cell before......I know he did not program my number into that new cell phone. So he had to be calling on purpose.I can't believe someone would pull such a cruel stunt. He is either an evil person or a complete moron. Maybe both. ugh. If my ex called and called me by some other woman's name I think I would lose my mind on him.
Author stlnsmile Posted July 16, 2008 Author Posted July 16, 2008 I can't believe someone would pull such a cruel stunt. He is either an evil person or a complete moron. Maybe both. ugh. If my ex called and called me by some other woman's name I think I would lose my mind on him. Its possible he was calling to speak to me and when he got my mother he got scared and just said the first thing he thought of, because he's scared shi**less of my mom:) Either way, I don't think it was by accident. As I said, I know his new gf would not tollerate my phone number in his new phone. He could have called just so his new cell number was on my caller ID. I think asking for the gf was a way to try to mess with my mom honestly. IDK and I really really don't care. Im not answering the phone if that number calls in again. I think if I had answered the phone, he would have been like "oh hey A, Im sorry, but how are you"...ya know. But he's a dweeb, and I have moved on.....and as I said, very convinient this call coming one hour after I posted as my main pic on myspace me with a guy:) Oh well.......honestly......this is how I know I am over it...I am at peace and going to go to bed. The cool thing is, now I know what that number is too, so he won't suprise me again, and I can just not answer.
Author stlnsmile Posted July 16, 2008 Author Posted July 16, 2008 everytime he gets a reaction he gets ur attention then he gets a point and another little bit of u. its a mind game Ha...well, I didn't talk to him, my mom did, and she just said, "No sorry, wrong number." Hahahahaha:lmao:
Author stlnsmile Posted July 16, 2008 Author Posted July 16, 2008 So lets take a Pole, how many say the call was on accident, how many say on purpose. How many say he will try again, or thats the last time he will ever call my phone. Now get our your crystal balls people, and let me know what you think.
tealeafbud Posted July 16, 2008 Posted July 16, 2008 I vote for it was on purpose. He's done that kind of stuff before eh?
kizik Posted July 16, 2008 Posted July 16, 2008 He did it on purpose. No one calls the wrong number anymore.
Author stlnsmile Posted July 16, 2008 Author Posted July 16, 2008 I can't believe someone would pull such a cruel stunt. He is either an evil person or a complete moron. Maybe both. ugh. If my ex called and called me by some other woman's name I think I would lose my mind on him. I think evil moron would about discribe my ex:) Ha! Well as far as I see it, if it was on accident, thats even better, because I am sure he's asking himself, "Now why did I call her?" Hehehe! The brain can do funny things to people. Ahhhh, the best feeling in the world.....not wanting to speak to him, knowing I have gotten over this so much so, that I would not dream to answer that phone because there is nothing left to say. PEACE in my heart. Im so happy. And I just want to thank all my LS buds for being there always and being so kind and loving and caring through this whole ordeal. You guys are awesome if no one has ever told you that. And I know each of you are going to find some amazing person someday that will love you just as you are, no fakeness, no lies, no controlling manipulative stuff.......I look forward to hearing as each of you find love again.....but the real deal:)
LikeCharlotte Posted July 16, 2008 Posted July 16, 2008 I think evil moron would about discribe my ex:) Ha! Well as far as I see it, if it was on accident, thats even better, because I am sure he's asking himself, "Now why did I call her?" Hehehe! The brain can do funny things to people. Ahhhh, the best feeling in the world.....not wanting to speak to him, knowing I have gotten over this so much so, that I would not dream to answer that phone because there is nothing left to say. PEACE in my heart. Im so happy. And I just want to thank all my LS buds for being there always and being so kind and loving and caring through this whole ordeal. You guys are awesome if no one has ever told you that. And I know each of you are going to find some amazing person someday that will love you just as you are, no fakeness, no lies, no controlling manipulative stuff.......I look forward to hearing as each of you find love again.....but the real deal:)You are quite welcome. I feel the same way. I am hopeful and I feel really good about the future, despite how bad things look sometimes. Now for my vote: I think it was an intentional call and he caved when your mother answered. The first name he could think of that wasn't yours was the other girl. That seems reasonable to me. I still think he is an evil moron!
Author stlnsmile Posted July 16, 2008 Author Posted July 16, 2008 You are quite welcome. I feel the same way. I am hopeful and I feel really good about the future, despite how bad things look sometimes. Now for my vote: I think it was an intentional call and he caved when your mother answered. The first name he could think of that wasn't yours was the other girl. That seems reasonable to me. I still think he is an evil moron! Charlotte, I love you, if you were a guy, you would be mine:) You made my short list too:) JK.
tealeafbud Posted July 16, 2008 Posted July 16, 2008 I think evil moron would about discribe my ex:) Ha! Well as far as I see it, if it was on accident, thats even better, because I am sure he's asking himself, "Now why did I call her?" Hehehe! The brain can do funny things to people. Ahhhh, the best feeling in the world.....not wanting to speak to him, knowing I have gotten over this so much so, that I would not dream to answer that phone because there is nothing left to say. PEACE in my heart. Im so happy. And I just want to thank all my LS buds for being there always and being so kind and loving and caring through this whole ordeal. You guys are awesome if no one has ever told you that. And I know each of you are going to find some amazing person someday that will love you just as you are, no fakeness, no lies, no controlling manipulative stuff.......I look forward to hearing as each of you find love again.....but the real deal:) you're welcome stl, and thank YOU also!
Author stlnsmile Posted July 16, 2008 Author Posted July 16, 2008 you're welcome stl, and thank YOU also! TLB, Ide marry you, but your the same age as my dad...but your awesome:) Can't wait for you to find Mrs. Right....maybe Charlotte:)
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