Ariadne Posted July 16, 2008 Posted July 16, 2008 Your brother is probably like me.. extremely picky... I think guys are like that in general. Their standards are way high. Many would probably think that Paris Hilton is ugly and they wouldn't date her either. Even if they look like crap.
Lizzie60 Posted July 16, 2008 Posted July 16, 2008 I think guys are like that in general. Their standards are way high. Many would probably think that Paris Hilton is ugly and they wouldn't date her either. Even if they look like crap. yabbut Paris Hilton IS ugly.. IMO..
Grim Posted July 16, 2008 Posted July 16, 2008 i no i underate myself with certain ppl and with some i feel equal but i have never felt better than anyone else except rude ppl
daphne Posted July 16, 2008 Posted July 16, 2008 yabbut Paris Hilton IS ugly.. IMO.. she's got that freaky lazy eye thing going on.. I can see why guys think she's hot. She's ditzy, blonde, slender and willing.
Nemo Posted July 16, 2008 Posted July 16, 2008 I've had a couple of exes tell me they were afraid I was out of their league. You are probably just high maintenance. Either that, or you hunt for "fixer uppers."
Lizzie60 Posted July 16, 2008 Posted July 16, 2008 she's got that freaky lazy eye thing going on.. I can see why guys think she's hot. She's ditzy, blonde, slender and willing. hahaha.. 'freaky lazy eye thing'... she looks like such an idiot... poor thing.
Trialbyfire Posted July 16, 2008 Posted July 16, 2008 Paris Hilton is good looking, albeit not beautiful. Her lifestyle and attitude are what destroys her looks.
daphne Posted July 16, 2008 Posted July 16, 2008 You are probably just high maintenance. Either that, or you hunt for "fixer uppers." High maintenance, nah. Fixer uppers, well... maybe. Or perhaps fixer uppers are the ones that hunt me since I don't chase men.
daphne Posted July 16, 2008 Posted July 16, 2008 Paris Hilton is good looking, albeit not beautiful. Her lifestyle and attitude are what destroys her looks. oh noes. tbf is back from boyfriendland and giving us the time of night. not that i'm remotely jealous because i've taken another pledge of celibacy.
Trialbyfire Posted July 16, 2008 Posted July 16, 2008 oh noes. tbf is back from boyfriendland and giving us the time of night. not that i'm remotely jealous because i've taken another pledge of celibacy. Hey, hey, dating doesn't equal a lack of celibacy, although it might!
DunnoWhat Posted July 16, 2008 Posted July 16, 2008 I think more often men will overrate and women will underrate. I think men will often not know who's in their "league" so to speak and women assess it a bit more realistically. Thinking about this point I actually think it's the other way around. Most women will look at their faults and complain about themselves BUT when it comes to choosing men then suddenly they have a high opinion of themselves. Most men will ACT alpha (which comes across as being cocky etc) but deep down they try to please the women because women are the choosers usually. So men ACT like they're in a higher league and women behave like they're in a higher league.
ntucci12 Posted July 16, 2008 Posted July 16, 2008 Do you think people really know how to really assess themselves? That is, there is a tendency to either over-evaluate or under-evaluate but not quite really know where one stands? Like people who say they are 9s are maybe 7.5 lol or vice versa Whenever your main export is yourself people have a tendency to market themselves accordingly. On a somewhat related note I am reminded by various MTV programming that not only exhibits this increasingly common trait but shoves it in your face. Myspace is a haven for those with an inflated sense of self worth (not all of it...but look around you know what I mean) where the image portrayed is merely the grand illusion of greatness or as you so simply put it "9s"
xpaperxcutx Posted July 16, 2008 Posted July 16, 2008 I don't really rate people... I was taught not to that shallow... I always think i'm pretty average, I don't understand what ppl see in me... I shy away from ppl coming on to me... but then I'm shy in general.
HiItsMe Posted July 16, 2008 Posted July 16, 2008 Do you think people really know how to really assess themselves? That is, there is a tendency to either over-evaluate or under-evaluate but not quite really know where one stands? Like people who say they are 9s are maybe 7.5 lol or vice versa Well, I do see a string of people on dating sites that seem to put, "People say I look young for my age" and seem to focus on that aspect of their characteristics, which comes off as kind of vein.
Trialbyfire Posted July 16, 2008 Posted July 16, 2008 Well maybe I shouldn't have said rank But I have heard people saying how their SOs were so hot and good looking (as if to indirectly validate their own "good looks"), but in a lot of these cases I'm not buying it. Or they'll say, "I'm OK looking, but guys are always hitting on me" (throwing in that bit of self deprecation to hide how they really feel lol) It just seems that a lot of people think they're good looking.....but it can't be that everyone walking around is so good looking....although I agree good looking is in the eye of the beholder You might be confusing two different things, in that yes, a superficial assessment might cause you to believe they're not as "good looking" as portrayed by their SO. On the otherhand, most people don't fall in love for solely the superficial. The person's SO might be the most beautiful individual to them, inside and out.
Trialbyfire Posted July 16, 2008 Posted July 16, 2008 there's always HotorNot Haha...I cruised that site out of curiosity once and burst out laughing. THE BEST comedy site around!!
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