Turtlelover28 Posted July 15, 2008 Posted July 15, 2008 I was with this man for 2 years, we had alot of issues, but i stayed cause i loved him and wanted to work it out i thought we were in a relationship. Well 2 weeks ago he told me that a woman asked him to marry her. Why is he telling me this, i really dont know, i dont know if its a scare tatic for me to start changing or if it really it true. Well what i did is i loved me and wanted him happy so i set him free and i wished him goodluck with her and there wedding and i was happy for the both of them, i told him maybe 6 months to a year we can talk again and be friends but right now i need to heal and move on. Well ever since then hes called me 2-3 times a day, or course i dont answer cause i am trying to do the nc thing and move on well his birthday was july 9th i sent him an email card telling him happy birthday he emailed me and told me thank you, well he tried calling me on the 9th i didnt answer again on the 10th 3 times why call me if hes already told me thank you in an email? but what i dont understand is when a man tells you that hes thinking about marrying another woman, why is he putting forth so much energy into talking to me ?shouldnt he be focused on his new marriage hes getting into? If he afraid of losing me or afraid of rejection or trying to keep me for back up incase it doesnt work?
xpaperxcutx Posted July 15, 2008 Posted July 15, 2008 What the? Even if he asks to be with you, you're not gonna because he sounds like a d**K. You were with him for 2 years exclusively (?) and he ****ing goes off to another woman because she wants to marry him. How do you put up with that? I'm sorry that he was an ass, but he doesn't deserve you because he never really appreciated you to begin with. His excessive phones, be it whatever they are for, you're right in not answering him. If need be take a vacation away from home, because I'm afraid he might come knocking at your door.
bigmanpayne Posted July 15, 2008 Posted July 15, 2008 lol, he lied to you. he wasnt going to get married to anyone else, he probably just wanted some attention or to make you jealous and it blew up in his face. he wanted you to do what he wanted and you called his bluff - Good for you.
xpaperxcutx Posted July 15, 2008 Posted July 15, 2008 lol, he lied to you. he wasnt going to get married to anyone else, he probably just wanted some attention or to make you jealous and it blew up in his face. he wanted you to do what he wanted and you called his bluff - Good for you. So if it was a bluff why would he do it? And why the jealousy factor? The OP already said she's been devoted to the guy for the last 2 yrs.
bigmanpayne Posted July 15, 2008 Posted July 15, 2008 So if it was a bluff why would he do it? And why the jealousy factor? The OP already said she's been devoted to the guy for the last 2 yrs. why do people do half of the things they do. people have great spouses at home who will die for them and they cheat on them... why do they do that? some people cant get out of their own way sometimes and there is not explanation for it. i think he was totally lying. he told her that, she said OK good luck, and then he wouldn't stop calling... so if he wanted to marry the other woman so much, why is he calling his ex? he lied, it blew up and now he regrets it and probably would do anything to get things back to the way they were.
xpaperxcutx Posted July 15, 2008 Posted July 15, 2008 why do people do half of the things they do. people have great spouses at home who will die for them and they cheat on them... why do they do that? some people cant get out of their own way sometimes and there is not explanation for it. i think he was totally lying. he told her that, she said OK good luck, and then he wouldn't stop calling... so if he wanted to marry the other woman so much, why is he calling his ex? he lied, it blew up and now he regrets it and probably would do anything to get things back to the way they were. PLease, phone calls may be annoying but it just shows how lazy he is in wanting to get back with the OP. She shouldn't anyways even if he did.
bigmanpayne Posted July 15, 2008 Posted July 15, 2008 PLease, phone calls may be annoying but it just shows how lazy he is in wanting to get back with the OP. She shouldn't anyways even if he did. you are right. she shouldnt get back with him. i am not saying he's right, i am glad she called his bluff and now can move on... he is an idiot.
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