xpaperxcutx Posted July 15, 2008 Posted July 15, 2008 meet up or hang out with you, does that mean he's a creep? I'm unaware of his intentions
Mahatma Posted July 15, 2008 Posted July 15, 2008 edit: lemme fix this real quick: If the feeling is mutual, then who cares. If he's constantly asking you to hang out and you are constantly having to tell him you are busy, then stay away. If you both enjoy each other, no reason to act like you'd rather be doing something else.
Author xpaperxcutx Posted July 15, 2008 Author Posted July 15, 2008 edit: lemme fix this real quick: If the feeling is mutual, then who cares. If he's constantly asking you to hang out and you are constantly having to tell him you are busy, then stay away. If you both enjoy each other, no reason to act like you'd rather be doing something else. It's not that. The feeling's mutual. Just he kept asking to meet up at the wrong time, like after he gets off work.
bigmanpayne Posted July 15, 2008 Posted July 15, 2008 i dont get it, why would you think he was a creep because he wants to hang out with you? he might just enjoy your company or feel a little lonely. do you like hanging out with him?
Author xpaperxcutx Posted July 15, 2008 Author Posted July 15, 2008 i dont get it, why would you think he was a creep because he wants to hang out with you? he might just enjoy your company or feel a little lonely. do you like hanging out with him? I would like to hang out with him. But he wants to meet up after work tho... I'm not just some you can call up when you need some company. Give me a heads up.
bigmanpayne Posted July 15, 2008 Posted July 15, 2008 well tell him that. if he accepts it cool, if not then deal with it. why are you so quick to get rid of him over something like this? or are you?
Author xpaperxcutx Posted July 15, 2008 Author Posted July 15, 2008 well tell him that. if he accepts it cool, if not then deal with it. why are you so quick to get rid of him over something like this? or are you? No I'm not. We actually have a date next Saturday. But he keeps asking me out before that. I've told him quite literally word for word that I want to meet him on Saturday, because then we'll have the whole day together. But he keeps wanting to meet up after work.
CaliGuy Posted July 15, 2008 Posted July 15, 2008 I would like to hang out with him. But he wants to meet up after work tho... I'm not just some you can call up when you need some company. Give me a heads up. What time would he have available outside of work? Does he not want to hang out on the weekend?
Author xpaperxcutx Posted July 15, 2008 Author Posted July 15, 2008 What time would he have available outside of work? Does he not want to hang out on the weekend? He gets out of work at 5:30, but I don't want to go out into the city because then its like we hang out for 3 hrs and I'm home by 9. He asked me on the weekend, but I'm booked for a friend's party. So he has his own plans. I feel like he just asks me out just to fill in time.
bigmanpayne Posted July 15, 2008 Posted July 15, 2008 He gets out of work at 5:30, but I don't want to go out into the city because then its like we hang out for 3 hrs and I'm home by 9. He asked me on the weekend, but I'm booked for a friend's party. So he has his own plans. I feel like he just asks me out just to fill in time. huh? sounds to me like he just wants to hang out with you. he did ask you on the weekend and you were busy. he asks you when he gets off work, but you dont like that either... do you even like him?
Star Gazer Posted July 15, 2008 Posted July 15, 2008 He wants to hang out after he gets off work, and he gets off work at 5:30? I think that's perfectly reasonable. I thought you were saying he got off work late, which would make you into a booty call situation.
Author xpaperxcutx Posted July 15, 2008 Author Posted July 15, 2008 He wants to hang out after he gets off work, and he gets off work at 5:30? I think that's perfectly reasonable. I thought you were saying he got off work late, which would make you into a booty call situation. Alright I understand that. But I forgot to mention that he brought up about meeting a coworker after work. No mention to the gender of this so called " co-worker", I told him to have fun. Then he says " I haven't asked her yet." And so on and so forth. Are you sure it's not a booty call?
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