Key Posted July 15, 2008 Posted July 15, 2008 Met a guy few years back..things didn't work out at first, but we both agreed to "work on things". I went to go see him (last Aug.) and he did an 180 on me--HE told me he didn't "want to see me, but..."(his exact words). I got pissed, so I called him some names (like P*ssy, little boy, etc.). I haven't heard from him since then. Thing is, I think about him, and would like to reconcile, but on the other hand, I didn't like the way I was treated, and would like to stay away. I'm just feeling confused, and would like to have questions answered by him, but I'm afraid he's not going to answer them (or have an answer). Should I move foward, or TRY to see if he would like to reconcile?
sultry33 Posted July 15, 2008 Posted July 15, 2008 Met a guy few years back..things didn't work out at first, but we both agreed to "work on things". I went to go see him (last Aug.) and he did an 180 on me--HE told me he didn't "want to see me, but..."(his exact words). I got pissed, so I called him some names (like P*ssy, little boy, etc.). I haven't heard from him since then. Thing is, I think about him, and would like to reconcile, but on the other hand, I didn't like the way I was treated, and would like to stay away. I'm just feeling confused, and would like to have questions answered by him, but I'm afraid he's not going to answer them (or have an answer). Should I move foward, or TRY to see if he would like to reconcile? there is a saying once is ok.. 2nd ? 3rd a fool.. sometimes the thing that is out of reach is the thing we want the most.. but he has to want it too.. he was mean to you the 2nd time.. dont put yourself through it again.. your lovely and deserve better.. believe it
Keridan Posted July 15, 2008 Posted July 15, 2008 We all want closure. And sometimes it's true "Sometimes God's greatest gift is unanswered prayers". I have searched out closure a few times in my life. Without fail, it has led to re-opening old wounds, hurt feelings, or just feeling worse/less satisfied. My experience doesn't define the rule for a situation, but I'm willing to bet there are very few people who have a different story to tell. We sometimes spend time thinking about the good and with time it gets easier to forget the bad. You bring it all back up again and you might find it was a lot worse than you remember. I'm sorry you are feeling confused. I do think it's time to move forward, though. Have some fun and try to forget about him. There's millions of guys out there who would give you a lot more fun for your time.
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