motive2002 Posted July 14, 2008 Posted July 14, 2008 It seems the original post is gone. A lot of posts were magically deleted after forum maintenance Anyway, have you ever felt "ruined"' by someone? God forbid my ex ever hear about her actually being the best damn thing in the sac I've ever experienced. I wouldn't want to give her that kind of satisfaction (no pun intended) So it makes me wonder... how am I going to go on from here? It would suck to meet someone new you really like, only to discover they are a little more prudish or, to put it bluntly, boring than you'd like. Some people are just not very open minded about trying new things, or they have hang-ups about this or that... The ex really did blow my doors off and then some. Something tells me that this will be tough to replace
kizik Posted July 14, 2008 Posted July 14, 2008 Incredible sex generally means the couple is trying to compensate (albeit subconsciously) for their lack of connection in other, more important areas. The better the sex ("mind-blowing"), the more chaotic the relationship.
Author motive2002 Posted July 15, 2008 Author Posted July 15, 2008 Incredible sex generally means the couple is trying to compensate (albeit subconsciously) for their lack of connection in other, more important areas. The better the sex ("mind-blowing"), the more chaotic the relationship. Not sure if that's the case or not, but it was still mind-blowing all the same! I could go into detail, but I don't want to get my account banned.
kizik Posted July 15, 2008 Posted July 15, 2008 You can always PM me about it. Anyway, crazy women are crazy in bed. That's all I'm saying.
Lookingforward Posted July 15, 2008 Posted July 15, 2008 You can always PM me about it. Anyway, crazy women are crazy in bed. That's all I'm saying. HAHAHHAHAHAHHAHAHHA (decides not to be too crazy in bed from now on)
Lizzie60 Posted July 15, 2008 Posted July 15, 2008 It seems the original post is gone. A lot of posts were magically deleted after forum maintenance Anyway, have you ever felt "ruined"' by someone? God forbid my ex ever hear about her actually being the best damn thing in the sac I've ever experienced. I wouldn't want to give her that kind of satisfaction (no pun intended) So it makes me wonder... how am I going to go on from here? It would suck to meet someone new you really like, only to discover they are a little more prudish or, to put it bluntly, boring than you'd like. Some people are just not very open minded about trying new things, or they have hang-ups about this or that... The ex really did blow my doors off and then some. Something tells me that this will be tough to replace When you've been with someone who was great in bed.. it's hard to keep someone who is boring.. it's really almost impossible... Sex is an extremely part of a relationship.. so I don't think I would stay with someone who is NOT good in bed.
Lookingforward Posted July 15, 2008 Posted July 15, 2008 When you've been with someone who was great in bed.. it's hard to keep someone who is boring.. it's really almost impossible... Sex is an extremely part of a relationship.. so I don't think I would stay with someone who is NOT good in bed. or not for long anyway
wareagle Posted July 15, 2008 Posted July 15, 2008 Anyway, crazy women are crazy in bed. That's all I'm sayin Ha ha isn't that the freakin truth!!! My friend and I were talking about this very thing a few day's ago! My ex and I to had awesome relations lol, Like motive I fear it will be hard to find again, not saying that is all I am looking for, I will take a stable women anyday over someone who rocks the bed, or table, floor shower, you get my point? I miss it like crazy especially the make up sex!!! WOW!!!
kizik Posted July 15, 2008 Posted July 15, 2008 I will take a stable women anyday over someone who rocks the bed, or table, floor shower...! Well-said, War. I think people perhaps place too much importance on "wicked crazy" sex. I would rather have a boring-in-the-sack total sweetheart than a freaky-as-f*ck bitch.
Author motive2002 Posted July 15, 2008 Author Posted July 15, 2008 Well-said, War. I think people perhaps place too much importance on "wicked crazy" sex. I would rather have a boring-in-the-sack total sweetheart than a freaky-as-f*ck bitch. Hmm.. tough choice. I mean, once you've been made to feel like a porn-star it's kinda hard to go back.
kizik Posted July 15, 2008 Posted July 15, 2008 You're gonna have to go back, b/c your ex sounds like she was one of a kind in a molested sort of way, and trust me you don't want another one of her.
purplepoodle Posted July 15, 2008 Posted July 15, 2008 I have to have to disagree here. I have had mind blowing sex with all of my exes, things that you really can't get into on this board. I am a sweet, kind, caring girl with a huge heart. That doesn't mean I can't be a slut in the bedroom with the one I love. Doesn't make me crazy in the least
Lookingforward Posted July 15, 2008 Posted July 15, 2008 I have to have to disagree here. I have had mind blowing sex with all of my exes, things that you really can't get into on this board. I am a sweet, kind, caring girl with a huge heart. That doesn't mean I can't be a slut in the bedroom with the one I love. Doesn't make me crazy in the least Totally agree purp...you can have great sex and NOT be crazy
LikeCharlotte Posted July 15, 2008 Posted July 15, 2008 I must be madder than a hatter. I remember part one of this post and I recall saying that great sex is a priority for me.
justaman99 Posted July 15, 2008 Posted July 15, 2008 Great sex was all about a great connection for me. It was just a level of being completely uninhibited, trust and a desire to please each other and let ourselves be primates. She wasn't crazy at all, we just had a huge emotional and physical connection and we truly desired each other and each other's needs and wants and communicated very well in this area also which was a huge plus. -Just
ioncebelieved Posted July 15, 2008 Posted July 15, 2008 Anyway, crazy women are crazy in bed. That's all I'm sayin Ha ha isn't that the freakin truth!!! My friend and I were talking about this very thing a few day's ago! My ex and I to had awesome relations lol, Like motive I fear it will be hard to find again, not saying that is all I am looking for, I will take a stable women anyday over someone who rocks the bed, or table, floor shower, you get my point? I miss it like crazy especially the make up sex!!! WOW!!! Women are crazy anyway, how about that???? All jokes aside not sure if I agree totally with Kizik on this one or not. The verdict is still out. May be an over generalization. I do agree with incredible sex part and I SO AM MISSING that right now and probably would buckle like a belt if my ex called and said, " Lets have sex because I miss it."
Author motive2002 Posted July 15, 2008 Author Posted July 15, 2008 I SO AM MISSING that right now and probably would buckle like a belt if my ex called and said, " Lets have sex because I miss it." I would probably buckle too, but my ex was a LDR and is 2000 miles from here. Ok maybe I'd get a plane ticket.....
LikeCharlotte Posted July 15, 2008 Posted July 15, 2008 I would probably buckle too, but my ex was a LDR and is 2000 miles from here. Ok maybe I'd get a plane ticket..... Oh hells no. Never. I have great sex with whomever I am with. Who needs to go back? Then again as I recall the sex really was slightly better than mediocre most of the time and mind blowing once or twice. Meh. We didn't get to where I would have liked to be sexually. The trust just wasn't there for me yet and I'm glad I have the instincts to have waited. I prefer that he doesn't know my most intimate secrets. He only knows a couple cool little things about me. I can live with that.
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