broncos23 Posted July 14, 2008 Posted July 14, 2008 My X and I broke up several months ago. She's been hanging out with new guys and I think likes this one kid. However, she once in a while does text me and sends hearts and hints here and there. I've tried the whole no contact thing and I feel like there is something else I should do just to try again. She doesn't live next door but she does live down the street. We've seen the movie "The Girl Next Door" and I always joked with her where have you been all my life and she would respond down the street. My question was should I leave her a note with the quote from the movie that I think fits our situation? I always feel like no matter you should always keep trying for something you really want. The quote: "But lately I've been seeing it differently. Now I think moral fiber's about finding that one thing you really care about. That one special thing that means more to you than anything else in the world. And when you find her, you fight for her. You risk it all, you put her in front of everything, your life, all of it. And maybe the stuff you do to help her isn't so clean. You know what? It doesn't matter. Because in your heart you know, that the juice is worth the squeeze." Should I leave her that on a little piece of paper and see what happens? I was also going to accompany it with the song "This Year's Love' by David Gray which is also from the movie. I would love to see what you guys have to say. Thanks.
JustinWolf Posted July 14, 2008 Posted July 14, 2008 Try it if you think it's going to help but don't expect anything except on your case it seems that you will... I'd try to avoid it but it depends on the girl also. Here, people will tell you that no contact will help you but it's mostly to heal from the breakup and forget about her. If you want to write that and leave it at her doorstep do so only if you know that she may not come back but at least she'll know what you feel but if you take that path you have to be there for her. If you see she's just teasing... bail out. Also, I suggest you think about it a whole lot if you talk as friends and she's sending you hearts... maybe it's just as friends but you feel there's something. Try it out, see what happens and let us know.
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