pinkybecky Posted July 14, 2008 Posted July 14, 2008 Hey Guys! Sorry il try keep this short! im just so confused right now..... I have been in several previous relationships last one lasting 5 years altho all have ended badly and now im wanting to date again properly ive forgotten how too. So here goes theres this guy ive seen him last few times ive been out he reali like me altho i was totally oblivious to him yeah hes hot but i just didnt consider anything. Anyway we did eventually hook up and i stayed over but next day he had to leave he wouldnt be back for 2 months. Anyway because ive been so scarred from my previous relationships im not sure how to take this, and what to do next? but now i reali do like him weve been talkin a good bit just texting but i find this way you just cant get anything going you reali need to be seein them!! now im not sure wheter to keep this going until he comes back i no wen i see him itl be reali good and we get on so well its just not good when texting its pretty boring. Should i play hard to get and not be texting him first just letting him text me or should i text him first some times? he did mention when i seen him he got the impression from texts i wasnt reali into him but i dont mean it that way at all!! im just so confused on how to go about this i reali like him and wana try hold on and keep it interesting until he comes home just dont no what to do and not sure if looking keen is the way forward cause i havent been acting keen at all!! i thought hard to get was what guys like! but this way im now scared itl just fizzle out due to my insecurities hope this makes sense! thanks xxxxxxxx
ate_the_paint Posted July 14, 2008 Posted July 14, 2008 Nobody likes the hard to get games, and it's usually the women who play them! If you think of it, a relationship that starts off with games is going to end up with....you guessed it...games! I would suggest just following your heart. Text him or even better, call him, if you want to talk to him. Don't over do it (don't become obsessive) but initiate some stuff sometimes and let him do it other times.
DunnoWhat Posted July 14, 2008 Posted July 14, 2008 I don't think guys like having to chase women or same goes for women chasing men. It's best to let them know you're interested but not too interested that you'll chase them. It's about balance between the 2.
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