LolitaAnastasia Posted July 14, 2008 Posted July 14, 2008 Last Friday, my boyfriend came over and he was all ready for some nice love making. Anyways for the past two weeks I told him I bought anal desensitiser lubricate and couldn't wait to try it out when he came back from being in the city. And mentioned a lot about anal sex. So I got all ready putting the lube on and waited for him to come into the room. He came in to my room, and we started to get it on until he started to put his penis in to my anus, the lubrication didn't work and it was so painful. Mind you I haven't had anal sex with him for a while cause of him leaving. Anyways I told him to stop and he got aggitated, and even whispering that I was the one who wanted this and that it was my fault for having him, dream and think about having anal sex with me while he was away. All cause I was talking about it. We decided to sleep on it, the next morning we tried again but the pain was to much. He got huffy rolled over and had a nap. By 12 in the afternoon, he woke up, got dressed and left without saying goodbye to me or even to my parents who were in the kitchen. He normally says hello and would have a cup of tea with them. I find his behavour rather odd, I knew he had the poops, but I didn't press on with it. Right now my mother was thinking he was up to something the night he came over. I have had the heart to tell her that he came over for anal sex and to see me. I know it's not my fault that things didn't pan out as we both hoped. Should I wait till he calms down and give him a call or should I wait for him to call me?
xpaperxcutx Posted July 14, 2008 Posted July 14, 2008 Last Friday, my boyfriend came over and he was all ready for some nice love making. Anyways for the past two weeks I told him I bought anal desensitiser lubricate and couldn't wait to try it out when he came back from being in the city. And mentioned a lot about anal sex. So I got all ready putting the lube on and waited for him to come into the room. He came in to my room, and we started to get it on until he started to put his penis in to my anus, the lubrication didn't work and it was so painful. Mind you I haven't had anal sex with him for a while cause of him leaving. Anyways I told him to stop and he got aggitated, and even whispering that I was the one who wanted this and that it was my fault for having him, dream and think about having anal sex with me while he was away. All cause I was talking about it. We decided to sleep on it, the next morning we tried again but the pain was to much. He got huffy rolled over and had a nap. By 12 in the afternoon, he woke up, got dressed and left without saying goodbye to me or even to my parents who were in the kitchen. He normally says hello and would have a cup of tea with them. I find his behavour rather odd, I knew he had the poops, but I didn't press on with it. Right now my mother was thinking he was up to something the night he came over. I have had the heart to tell her that he came over for anal sex and to see me. I know it's not my fault that things didn't pan out as we both hoped. Should I wait till he calms down and give him a call or should I wait for him to call me? Why's he getting all fussy? Guys have no idea how anal sex feels to a girl, all they ever think about is that its tighter than a vagina. You should be the one that's angry. You wanted to do something special for him so you went through all that trouble to get lube and he starts getting all prissy just because you guys can't do it, and he was disrespectful to your parents at that. You're not the one to call and apologize, he is.
Author LolitaAnastasia Posted July 14, 2008 Author Posted July 14, 2008 Why's he getting all fussy? Guys have no idea how anal sex feels to a girl, all they ever think about is that its tighter than a vagina. You should be the one that's angry. You wanted to do something special for him so you went through all that trouble to get lube and he starts getting all prissy just because you guys can't do it, and he was disrespectful to your parents at that. You're not the one to call and apologize, he is. Your right, this isn't really the first time, but he hasn't had his tantrums for months. So it was surprising.
xpaperxcutx Posted July 14, 2008 Posted July 14, 2008 Your right, this isn't really the first time, but he hasn't had his tantrums for months. So it was surprising. IF he comes back, you better hope he crawls back... you're his gf not his mother... throwing tantrums are for 8 yr olds.
Author LolitaAnastasia Posted July 14, 2008 Author Posted July 14, 2008 IF he comes back, you better hope he crawls back... you're his gf not his mother... throwing tantrums are for 8 yr olds. LOL yeah, I mean he is 34 I'm 24. I know when he is agitated in bed cause he will go and sleep in the spare room at his place.
xpaperxcutx Posted July 14, 2008 Posted July 14, 2008 LOL yeah, I mean he is 34 I'm 24. I know when he is agitated in bed cause he will go and sleep in the spare room at his place. He may be 34, but god does he sound immature. Make sure you let him call you a couple of times before you actually pick up the phone.
JP77 Posted July 14, 2008 Posted July 14, 2008 He may be 34, but god does he sound immature. Make sure you let him call you a couple of times before you actually pick up the phone. I agree, I just hope I mature before the ripe age of 34.
xpaperxcutx Posted July 14, 2008 Posted July 14, 2008 I agree, I just hope I mature before the ripe age of 34. You mean you're not mature now? Better start working on it then JP :p
2sunny Posted July 14, 2008 Posted July 14, 2008 wow- just wow! does he understand what patience and a sense of relaxation it takes to be able to enjoy anal? i don't think so... his sense of entitlement and his reaction of being pissed about it afterwards would be enough for me to never speak to him again. any intimacy between two people is a shared experience of emotions - mental as well as the physical side of it. he disrespected the act itself on so many levels... geez!
Lizzie60 Posted July 14, 2008 Posted July 14, 2008 Wow.. next time, tell him to turn over and shove your dildo down his azz (of course putting on some lube first) and ask him how he likes it.. geezzz what a jerk!
xpaperxcutx Posted July 14, 2008 Posted July 14, 2008 Wow.. next time, tell him to turn over and shove your dildo down his azz (of course putting on some lube first) and ask him how he likes it.. geezzz what a jerk! Hahaha sounds fun!!!!
Author LolitaAnastasia Posted July 14, 2008 Author Posted July 14, 2008 Guys thanks for your comments. They made me feel better. I do own a butt plug and have fantasied sticking it in his arse. I did put my finger in there but he didn't make a sound or even commented on it. I guess a mere finger is nothing compared to an 8 inch penis. When he is trying to calm me down he says "Don't I look after your anus? Am I not gentle to it. I'm not like those other guys who leave gaping holes." I don't know he likes my arse.
O'Malley Posted July 14, 2008 Posted July 14, 2008 Leave the ball in his court, as far as contact. I'm around the same age as your boyfriend, and at this point in my life I'm too picky to be with a guy who doesn't focus more on my arousal or at the least the same amount as his own or who has a hissy fit if I stop what we're doing due to pain or discomfort. That's neither a good lover nor a mature person.
xpaperxcutx Posted July 14, 2008 Posted July 14, 2008 Guys thanks for your comments. They made me feel better. I do own a butt plug and have fantasied sticking it in his arse. I did put my finger in there but he didn't make a sound or even commented on it. I guess a mere finger is nothing compared to an 8 inch penis. When he is trying to calm me down he says "Don't I look after your anus? Am I not gentle to it. I'm not like those other guys who leave gaping holes." I don't know he likes my arse. What the hell is that suppose to mean? You should've said " Don't I lick your penis good? Aren't I gentle with it? I'm not one of those gals that would bite it off!!"
JP77 Posted July 14, 2008 Posted July 14, 2008 You mean you're not mature now? Better start working on it then JP :p Have you seen my posts? I've never thrown a tantrum with a woman, because a woman always wins, no matter what. I don't like anal sex either, I had a nasty experience with that involving excrement on my condom.
Author LolitaAnastasia Posted July 14, 2008 Author Posted July 14, 2008 Aww poor J I hate after having anal sex, feels like your going to pooh.
Ariadne Posted July 14, 2008 Posted July 14, 2008 Well, What is there to explain? The guy got all hot and heavy and then got cut off. It can be very frustrating. But if he were a better lover and you were all receiving, with a little more experience he'd have gotten the deed done no problem. Maybe next time.
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