Mydish1 Posted July 14, 2008 Posted July 14, 2008 Well taking some advice from you folks last time, I was about to ask this girl about the babysitting situation she has with her sister. Anyway I saw her and, almost everytime I do we have so much fun I just forget about it. I had a goal this time though, that I was going to encourage her or us to move forward. Some things I had in mind to tell her was that we should try to hangout on weekdays or that she should initiate contact with me instead of me doing it all the time. We're taking things quite slow actually in a good way. Although we kiss and hold hands and stuff, we talk a lot about everything and she's been opening up a lot lately and asks me loads of questions...everything imaginable from relationships, dating, family/siblings, movies, music etc! What's unbelievable is we have a lot in common which makes getting along with her so easy. Though sadly we practically never talk on the phone. At times I admit I get a little insecure and feel like I'm being too much of a friend by talking so much, and she hardly shows affection. But i know she doesnt trust people easily and takes time to get to know someone, so I do understand. NOW the real deal why I'm posting: Neither of us have initiated the relationship talk. I've hinted and invited her to come up to my parents and even to my friend's wedding...but I always get some kind of hesitation, whether it's because she isn't ready to become a part of my life or because she's uncomfortable in new situations...I really don't know! I've wanted to ask her but I don't want to push her away. My head tells me that I want to date other girls and that I should ask them out. But the other part of me wants to only be with her. I like what we have because there aren't a whole lot of expectations or commitments and it's easy and fun being with her...I don't know if I'd want to ruin that. Knowing the situation should I give it time to bloom or should I try to narrow it down? Is it possible she's waiting for me to bring up the talk?
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