Kelso Posted July 13, 2008 Posted July 13, 2008 I got to know this girl about 2,5 weeks ago at a new college that I'm attending. She was really friendly and flirty for the first week and I was too. Her best friend told me that she was interested in me, but I didn't wanna rush things, just moved over here and am still settling down. Still we had some interesting flirty AIM conversations and a little on the phone. We went out partying together about a week and a half a ago where she met an old friend. A guy that lived in the same town as she lived in when she was a child. Well, to me he was just another guy interested in the hot chick. The rest of the night they talked a lot, but she still showed interest in me. a) By putting her hand on my thigh. b) I had to go to an ATM and she said "do you promise to come back". c) I went to the toilet and took a seat in a chair nearby, and she came over and asked if everything was alright. d) Intentionally, I left the group to see if I could get some reactions from her. And she called me minutes after she realized I was missing. Everything was alright, but I was just bored and had gotten pretty drunk. So we decided to leave, all of us ... a group of 5-6 people. We went to some other clubs and she came to me and said: "Why have you been so angry and boring tonight.. Steve and I are just friends". I just told her that I was tired, which I was. Didn't apologize or anything though. Few days later I had to go back home to get some stuff I forgot there. It took me three days and when I got back, Steve and her looked a lot better friends than they were 3 days earlier. But still we were having flirty AIM chats. Last night however a group of people met at our friends place. And he came few minutes later than I did. To begin with she acted like he wasn't even there. Then when it got later she sat next to him in the sofa and she was touching her thigh and she touched his shoulder and stuff. I stood up to get a beer and someone else took my spot at the sofa, so I sat in a chair opposite to them. And then she stopped touching him for the rest of the evening (but he was still touching her thigh and hair and stuff). We had the weirdest eye contact for the rest of the evening until I left. Then she sent me a finger kiss and said, see you tomorrow. Needless to say, Steve didn't leave at the same time as I did. Keep in mind..."Steve and I are just friends". The funny story is that Steve doesn't even live here and left this morning. What signals is this girl sending. "I'm interested, but I'm also interested in "my friend" Steve who lives hundreds of miles away." And the big question is ... why the hell do girls do these things. Usually, games like this make me lose my interest so fast, but there is something with that girl... What do you guys think she's up to??
backto1 Posted July 13, 2008 Posted July 13, 2008 It's hard telling exactly without being there but it sounds like you may have messed up. If you've only known a girl for a couple of weeks, you can't get upset every time she talks to another guy - especially if she's still giving you positive signals. If you're leaving "to get a reaction" that's a bad sign after only 2 weeks. And then it got worse because you acted insecure and pouty. Good thing is you can probably recover from this one if you play it cool from here on out.
Author Kelso Posted July 13, 2008 Author Posted July 13, 2008 Well ... me being angry had nothing to do with the guy. I was just tired and should have gone home earlier. I think she knows that, especially because me and the other guy got very well together last night. I'm a friendly person and didn't let him upset me, as I knew he was leaving and is not coming back... She has no idea about me disappearing intentionally, all she knows that I went to buy some cigarettes (which is true, I just didn't need them at that particular moment). E.g. I went to buy cigarettes without letting them know. So I don't believe that is the deal...
Author Kelso Posted July 13, 2008 Author Posted July 13, 2008 Does anyone have an input on this?? Don't wanna be rude here but this thread has sunk quite fast here today, almost at the bottom with only 29 views Everything appreciated...
xpaperxcutx Posted July 13, 2008 Posted July 13, 2008 I'm sensing lack of honesty. She's single right? So she might like the both of you and is jumping back and forth to see which one of you gives her the most ego boost... Is she an attention whore?
JP77 Posted July 13, 2008 Posted July 13, 2008 She's in FWB with this other guy, steer clear, I bet her Vagina stinks of pickled eggs and mustard.
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