mopar crazy Posted July 13, 2008 Posted July 13, 2008 I have a friend who's H had an A w/ one of her good friends. Needless to say their friendship ended b/c of it. However my friend continued her friendship w/ the OW's sister. They are BF, hang out all the time. After about a month my BW friend and her WH decided to work on their M. xOW could not accept this and continued to call WH. Even though both WH and BW told her to stop. They finally changed WH cell phone number. Well, xOW started texting BW phone telling her things like "He loves me, not you." This went on for a few months. FF to present. I call my friend to see how things are going. She told me her mom and xOW dad are dating! WTH? How awkward is that? Then she tells me the xOW sister, her AND the xOW went out the other night, together! She said the xOW was fine, acted cordial to her etc. The A was brought up and xOW didn't want to talk about it so they changed the subject. I told her she was a strong person b/c there is no way in HELL I would want to live in the same town w/ H's xOW let along hang out w/ her. This is just F'ed up! This is some Jerry Springer sh@t!
Lizzie60 Posted July 13, 2008 Posted July 13, 2008 I have a friend who's H had an A w/ one of her good friends. Needless to say their friendship ended b/c of it. However my friend continued her friendship w/ the OW's sister. They are BF, hang out all the time. After about a month my BW friend and her WH decided to work on their M. xOW could not accept this and continued to call WH. Even though both WH and BW told her to stop. They finally changed WH cell phone number. Well, xOW started texting BW phone telling her things like "He loves me, not you." This went on for a few months. FF to present. I call my friend to see how things are going. She told me her mom and xOW dad are dating! WTH? How awkward is that? Then she tells me the xOW sister, her AND the xOW went out the other night, together! She said the xOW was fine, acted cordial to her etc. The A was brought up and xOW didn't want to talk about it so they changed the subject. I told her she was a strong person b/c there is no way in HELL I would want to live in the same town w/ H's xOW let along hang out w/ her. This is just F'ed up! This is some Jerry Springer sh@t! What a mess... Maybe no one's don't give a hoot about the OW or the W..
Author mopar crazy Posted July 13, 2008 Author Posted July 13, 2008 What a mess... Maybe no one's don't give a hoot about the OW or the W.. It's more than a mess, it's just f#cked up, big time! She has a lot more strength and control than I ever would have. There is no way I could be face to face w/ that bitch w/o decking her. Where does she find the strength to actually hang out w/ her?
theobserver Posted July 13, 2008 Posted July 13, 2008 Where does she find the strength to actually hang out w/ her? I guess your friend is finding the strength in her Mother since she probably believes the relationship with the OW Dad is the real thing which it might be and technically her mum and the OW Dad have nothing to do with the situation. This is somewhat of a sacrifice in feelings for her mothers relationship. It's still f*cked up though no doubt. I don't think this would of been that bad of a situation if the OW wasn't tormenting her a few months before via text just showing how vindictive she was. You know what though this could of been a lot worse. Imagine your BW friend left her Husband. Then her Mom started to date the OW father. Can you imagine that? Letting go of your Husband who may decide to shack up with the OW and then your Mother goes with the father of the OW lol that would be some serious Jerry Spinger sh*t. At the moment it's just a bad situation. The fact she willingly went to hang out with the OW and her sister boggles the mind. Why? To get to know her not only for her mothers sake but to know her personality of why her husband cheated with her? Who knows. I just hope your friend doesn't get seriously burnt down the road.
porter218 Posted July 14, 2008 Posted July 14, 2008 Keep your friends close and your enemies closer. Smart, very smart. I have done this before. Not always for the reason that I just stated, some of them were really just good people.
Author mopar crazy Posted July 14, 2008 Author Posted July 14, 2008 You both hit the nail on the head. I emailed her last night and voiced my concerns. She she said the reasons why she hangs out w/ her was for the exact reasons you mentioned. One, b/c her mother is dating the OW dad, and two, keep your friends close and your enemies closer. However, I wonder how the WH feels about her hanging out w/ the OW? She hasn't mentioned that. I told her whatever she does, don't badmouth her WH to the xOW b/c she will eat that up. I hope she follows my advice.
porter218 Posted July 14, 2008 Posted July 14, 2008 However, I wonder how the WH feels about her hanging out w/ the OW? She hasn't mentioned that. . Who cares how the WH feels . Hopefully like a real dumbass.
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