bede86 Posted July 13, 2008 Posted July 13, 2008 Hey, now I've been single for ages...not sure why... I get old I'm a good looking guy buy lots of people, I get hit on by gay men heaps (lol) and I tend to get along with most people I meet, but for some reason when it comes to relationships with women I just dun seem to click with anyone, I've been turned down more times than I'd care to mention...I was a completely intreverted teenager, I was overweight and not appealing to girls at all, though now im 22 ive lost heaps of weight (around 50 kilo's) im looking good, quite physically fit and I train often...yet for some reason, still a single man...not sure why...I use to think it was coz i was a bit overweight and needed to build muscle etc, but ive lost the excess weight and Im quite toned now, yet im still single... I guess I really want a relationship and thats why it hasn't happened...I jus dun know what to do anymore, im not the fat kid anymore yet i still feel like i am...I'm literally so distraught with everything, now I lost weight and got fit for health reasons but I also thought it'd help me with girls...now im just dissolusioned with everything.
xpaperxcutx Posted July 13, 2008 Posted July 13, 2008 Hey, now I've been single for ages...not sure why... I get old I'm a good looking guy buy lots of people, I get hit on by gay men heaps (lol) and I tend to get along with most people I meet, but for some reason when it comes to relationships with women I just dun seem to click with anyone, I've been turned down more times than I'd care to mention...I was a completely intreverted teenager, I was overweight and not appealing to girls at all, though now im 22 ive lost heaps of weight (around 50 kilo's) im looking good, quite physically fit and I train often...yet for some reason, still a single man...not sure why...I use to think it was coz i was a bit overweight and needed to build muscle etc, but ive lost the excess weight and Im quite toned now, yet im still single... I guess I really want a relationship and thats why it hasn't happened...I jus dun know what to do anymore, im not the fat kid anymore yet i still feel like i am...I'm literally so distraught with everything, now I lost weight and got fit for health reasons but I also thought it'd help me with girls...now im just dissolusioned with everything. That's awesome that you've lost that much weight. Now about the girls, it depends on where you're meeting them. Most girls you meet at bars and club are slutty and turn down guys because they can and most times its a hookup. Are you generally attracted to girls that are physically fit like yourself or a girl that's pretty yet a bit average looking? And also most girls have a type as well. Some like men that are skinny, or a certain race, or fit, or old, or young..... but also its about personality. Do you give off the impression that you might seem boring or anything like that? Try not to focus on physical attributes but on how you want people to see you as, such as outgoing, funny... that sort of thing.
Author bede86 Posted July 13, 2008 Author Posted July 13, 2008 well im an average to large build - fairly robust, im around 90 kilo's 5 feet 11 inches etc, im a funny guy, can be a little immature at times with my closest friends, jus like to have a good time, i want women to see me as a nice decent guy that they'd like to go out with lol...ive had casual flings in the past but never a serious relationship...so I really dun have a type of my own, I'm not sure what kind of girls would go for me, i wish i did then i'd no what to look for.
xpaperxcutx Posted July 13, 2008 Posted July 13, 2008 well im an average to large build - fairly robust, im around 90 kilo's 5 feet 11 inches etc, im a funny guy, can be a little immature at times with my closest friends, jus like to have a good time, i want women to see me as a nice decent guy that they'd like to go out with lol...ive had casual flings in the past but never a serious relationship...so I really dun have a type of my own, I'm not sure what kind of girls would go for me, i wish i did then i'd no what to look for. Well usually it's a hit and miss for guys. You don't normally see girls going up to a guy and asking for their #. Don't worry about it though, have fun. Go out and date... just don't get too serious in the beginning. A relationship takes time to build.
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