Turtlelover28 Posted July 13, 2008 Posted July 13, 2008 Ok i will make this short and to the point, cause i am a little confused, I was with this man for 2 years, we had alot of issues, but i stayed cause i loved him and wanted to work it out. Well 2 weeks ago he told me that a woman asked him to marry her. Why is he telling me this, i really dont know, idont know if its a scare tatic for me to start changing or if it really it true. Well what i i did is i loved me and wanted him happy so i set him free, i told him maybe 6 months to a year we can talk again and be friends but right now i need to heal and move on. Well ever since then hes called me 2-3 times a day, or course idont answer cause i am trying to do the nc thing and move on, but what i dont understand is when a man tells you that, why is he putting forth so much energy into talking to me shouldnt he be focused on his new marriage hes getting into? If he afraid of losing me or afraid of rejection. Any input on this situation would be greatly appreciated. Thank you
sweetbutcheeky Posted July 13, 2008 Posted July 13, 2008 Ok i will make this short and to the point, cause i am a little confused, I was with this man for 2 years, we had alot of issues, but i stayed cause i loved him and wanted to work it out. Well 2 weeks ago he told me that a woman asked him to marry her. Why is he telling me this, i really dont know, idont know if its a scare tatic for me to start changing or if it really it true. Well what i i did is i loved me and wanted him happy so i set him free, i told him maybe 6 months to a year we can talk again and be friends but right now i need to heal and move on. Well ever since then hes called me 2-3 times a day, or course idont answer cause i am trying to do the nc thing and move on, but what i dont understand is when a man tells you that, why is he putting forth so much energy into talking to me shouldnt he be focused on his new marriage hes getting into? If he afraid of losing me or afraid of rejection. Any input on this situation would be greatly appreciated. Thank you Now I am confused. Did you break up only because he made that comment? Was it just a comment or is he considering marrying that woman?
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