daphne Posted July 12, 2008 Posted July 12, 2008 I can't bring myself to book a flight to the place where my ex is. He lives about 30 miles away from where I'm going, however I'll be in his area as well. It's to take a look again and see if I want to move out. I have had several dreams about him since I made up my mind to go, and it's making me skittish. HOwever, I really need to go now while I have vacation time if I want to move there next year. One dream was that the ex shot me in the head. I thought "great, no worries." Until I had 2 more where we were living together, back together. I don't plan on moving there if he's going to be on my mind. I am worried about running into him. I do not want to see him. And that concerns me. If I were indifferent I would have booked the ticket. Can someone kick me in the butt? I really need to hurry up before it's too late. And for the record, he moved out there knowing fully well that that's where I wanted to live apart from my current city. Have for 4 years.
Art_Critic Posted July 12, 2008 Posted July 12, 2008 I think it is all in how you look at it.. We are all in the same places where an ex lives... I live in the same state, city or just the fact they live on the same planet... It means nothing.. Go about your life as if he didn't exist and if you wind up living in the same city as he does then so what ?.. You can't let him control you this way.. Everything will be just fine.. and maybe by the time you move there he will move away
Author daphne Posted July 12, 2008 Author Posted July 12, 2008 We are all in the same places where an ex lives... I live in the same state, city or just the fact they live on the same planet... True, but that's why I like my exes moving away so I don't ever have to see them. lol I know I shouldn't let my fear of running into him control me, but I can't seem to help it. I was fine before the dreams.
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