Trialbyfire Posted July 12, 2008 Posted July 12, 2008 Totally agree with you. I'd be more willing to forgive that, than leaky spelling or grammar. We all have our standards, don't we! If text perfection is your highest criteria, it seems kind of shallow to me.
Nemo Posted July 12, 2008 Posted July 12, 2008 If text perfection is your highest criteria, it seems kind of shallow to me. It's very true that I'm not that deep. Then again, the deeper one goes, the fewer the nerve endings. I wonder what causes a loose bladder? I suppose it's not actually the bladder that's "loose." It might just be that his penis muscle needs extra conditioning.
Virgo1982 Posted July 12, 2008 Posted July 12, 2008 It's very true that I'm not that deep. Then again, the deeper one goes, the fewer the nerve endings. I wonder what causes a loose bladder? I suppose it's not actually the bladder that's "loose." It might just be that his penis muscle needs extra conditioning. :lmao: Can't see the forest for the trees...
Trialbyfire Posted July 12, 2008 Posted July 12, 2008 It's very true that I'm not that deep. Then again, the deeper one goes, the fewer the nerve endings. I wonder what causes a loose bladder? I suppose it's not actually the bladder that's "loose." It might just be that his penis muscle needs extra conditioning. Hey, better to not be overly-sensitive and create fictitious slights while harbouring resentments over generalized statements. If it's all about conditioning, spook can easily help him with this!
Jilly Bean Posted July 12, 2008 Posted July 12, 2008 If someone looses bladder control once while being hammered, I don't think it's a big deal. Wow. I guess we do all have our own standards. Personally, I'd be horrified that ANYONE I know over the age of 10 was wetting the bed. And in this case from blacking out cold from drinking? And while in the bed with a GF? Classless and trashy. Just reminds me of excerpts from SID AND NANCY. I find wallowing in your own waste to be a VERY big deal. What's next, Spook? He loses bowel control?
Trialbyfire Posted July 12, 2008 Posted July 12, 2008 Wow. I guess we do all have our own standards. Personally, I'd be horrified that ANYONE I know over the age of 10 was wetting the bed. And in this case from blacking out cold from drinking? And while in the bed with a GF? Classless and trashy. Just reminds me of excerpts from SID AND NANCY. I find wallowing in your own waste to be a VERY big deal. What's next, Spook? He loses bowel control? I know there are situations and criteria that you get into, that I also find abhorrent. Everyone sees things a different way, don't they?
Nemo Posted July 12, 2008 Posted July 12, 2008 I love golden showers. If I could, I would spend my whole life taking the piss. As has been previously mentioned, urine is sterile. There is no safer bodily fluid. Makes sense, because I have always been a very conservative person.
Jilly Bean Posted July 12, 2008 Posted July 12, 2008 I know there are situations and criteria that you get into, that I also find abhorrent. Everyone sees things a different way, don't they? My comment wasn't personally motivated - lol. It was a GENERIC statement against this behavior. Geesh.
Jilly Bean Posted July 12, 2008 Posted July 12, 2008 I love golden showers. If I could, I would spend my whole life taking the piss. As has been previously mentioned, urine is sterile. There is no safer bodily fluid. Makes sense, because I have always been a very conservative person. Urine is sterile, if someone is clean. If someone has herpes for example, or an infection, it's going to be picked up in the urine.
Storyrider Posted July 12, 2008 Posted July 12, 2008 Urine is sterile, if someone is clean. If someone has herpes for example, or an infection, it's going to be picked up in the urine. Well, the guy is a virgin, so I don't think that is at issue here. Spookie has gone numb for him, so she should back off. The peeing thing is just frosting on the cake, or er, the last straw.
Trialbyfire Posted July 12, 2008 Posted July 12, 2008 Well, the guy is a virgin, so I don't think that is at issue here. Spookie has gone numb for him, so she should back off. The peeing thing is just frosting on the cake, or er, the last straw. Yup, that's exactly the problem.
CarDude2015 Posted July 12, 2008 Posted July 12, 2008 Oh my God...this is too hilarious. I could not stop laughing. Boys over the age of 10 don't wet their beds unless there's a problem somewhere. I think this whole thing should at least open your eyes. If this guy's bed wetting in his ADULT partner's bed, what other problems lie underneath?! This whole thing is not right! You don't pee in the bed even IF you have loads of beer in you (hell I used to drink myself silly in my partying days and had a lot of beer in me and I never peed in the bed in my ENTIRE ADULT LIFE. I'm sure Karma's going to bite me in the ass for advising a lady to leave, but you just do NOT pee in the bed when you're with your partner! Heck, or even by yourself. That's lower than low. There are things you just don't do as a healthy mature adult. Peeing in the bed is one of them.
Crestfallen_KH Posted July 12, 2008 Posted July 12, 2008 Kick peeboy to the curb, seriously. He has trouble controlling his bladder, he's clingy, needy and defensive and you don't really like him. What's to debate?
zicke Posted July 12, 2008 Posted July 12, 2008 I don't think the guy did it on purpose...yes, drinking so much that you lose control of your body could be construed as on purpose. But, people can get so inebriated that they lose control of their bodily functions. Almost like being dead-your body evacuates it's wastes. That is probably how trashed he was, that his body was just to poisoned by alcohol that it was "paralyzed" in a sense. Or in a coma like state. He has got to be completely mortified.
Fun2BMe Posted July 12, 2008 Posted July 12, 2008 I think the fact that you were fantacising marriage and babies and told him you loved him one week, and the next week it took one piss for you to totally feel the opposite way, tells me he's not the right one for you! There are a lot of things you don't like about him - the fact that he doesn't take you on dates for one, or that he walks around with a hard-on like an adolesent another - and the urine was really just the cherry on top, or the last straw to snap you out of pretending everything is ok when it's not. If everything was ok and you were really in love with him, getting urinated on while he was not doing it on purpose wouldn't have shooken you up like this. You could leave a post-it on a bottle or diaper telling him you need to move on and that he needs to grow up.
Trialbyfire Posted July 12, 2008 Posted July 12, 2008 I don't think the guy did it on purpose...yes, drinking so much that you lose control of your body could be construed as on purpose. But, people can get so inebriated that they lose control of their bodily functions. Almost like being dead-your body evacuates it's wastes. That is probably how trashed he was, that his body was just to poisoned by alcohol that it was "paralyzed" in a sense. Or in a coma like state. He has got to be completely mortified. It's like going to the police and filing an abuse report, if your husband accidentally kicks you while dreaming.
D-Lish Posted July 12, 2008 Posted July 12, 2008 Okay... so I log in only to see this thread "I GOT PEED ON". lol. Spookie- that is too funny.
Author spookie Posted July 13, 2008 Author Posted July 13, 2008 Hi guys, I honestly think the reason I started going numb was because it's easier for me to do that than to confront someone about whatever issues I'm having (in this case, feeling pressured for sex and dissatisfied with the fact that we never go out). The reason, probably, is because whenever I voiced anything in my only real relationship, my ex would turn everything back on me, list out all the ways I made him unhappy, and then break up with me: so it's a defense mechanism, really; the only way I know how to cope. In a last-ditch move before I broke up with TT, I decided to voice what was bothering me, and, as he's done every other time I felt like bailing but opted to do that instead, he surprised me. He took me out to dinner tonight, and then on a walk, and then we spent the evening watching Weeds, without him rubbing on to me with his boner even ONCE (we cuddled, but he said he didn't want to get too physical so I wouldn't feel used). I had a really good time and affirmed to myself once again all the reasons I really like him. So, it's not over yet. I think I just need to work on my passive-aggressive tendencies.
Fun2BMe Posted July 13, 2008 Posted July 13, 2008 So what exactly did you tell him?? That's great to communicate and for him to respond positively.
CarDude2015 Posted July 13, 2008 Posted July 13, 2008 That's great - I'm truly glad to see it's working out and he responded in a positive way. Hopefully he's well aware of how that upset you and he won't be doing it again. What did you tell him?
xjohnsgirlx Posted July 13, 2008 Posted July 13, 2008 OMG this so sounds like me and my x... we spent 6 months seeing each other every single day and he always wanted sex aswell.. which also turned me off the idea of doing it .. the only time we were apart was when i was at work .. it took a tole on me... i really just wanted some space to myself.. but he cudnt understand that... you need to have a big hard think about if he truely is the one .. and if you can handle his clingyness forever.. i did decide that i couldnt do it which was the hardest decision in my life because i was truely in love with him i always thought of marriage and babys.... when i told him it was over he wud ring and ring and keep asking why i was leaving he couldnt understand.. he would cry and cry on the fone to me and if i didnt pick up he wud leave voice messages begging me to go back.. I really wanted to but i had to remember how clingy he was and how bad i wanted my own time sometimes and how id never get that with him... after a while he got the picture and it kinda turned into rage .. he got very... angry and violent ..and did alot of damage to mystuff when i wasnt at home... I cant tell you if your shud stay or leave but im saying have a big good hard think about it and please be careful if you decide his not the one...my wishes are with you xxxx
CaliGuy Posted July 13, 2008 Posted July 13, 2008 Hi guys, I honestly think the reason I started going numb was because it's easier for me to do that than to confront someone about whatever issues I'm having (in this case, feeling pressured for sex and dissatisfied with the fact that we never go out). The reason, probably, is because whenever I voiced anything in my only real relationship, my ex would turn everything back on me, list out all the ways I made him unhappy, and then break up with me: so it's a defense mechanism, really; the only way I know how to cope. In a last-ditch move before I broke up with TT, I decided to voice what was bothering me, and, as he's done every other time I felt like bailing but opted to do that instead, he surprised me. He took me out to dinner tonight, and then on a walk, and then we spent the evening watching Weeds, without him rubbing on to me with his boner even ONCE (we cuddled, but he said he didn't want to get too physical so I wouldn't feel used). I had a really good time and affirmed to myself once again all the reasons I really like him. So, it's not over yet. I think I just need to work on my passive-aggressive tendencies. Congrats. The only issue I wonder about is how long will it last? I mean if the guy really likes you I hope that he can contain his enthusiasm and learn to not let his little brain override his bigger one.
Angel1111 Posted July 13, 2008 Posted July 13, 2008 Hmm.....let's see. Really tough. How about GO WITH YOUR INSTINCT!!!!
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