shadowplay Posted July 11, 2008 Posted July 11, 2008 Near the end of my relationship, the last two months or so, I would rountinely tell my ex I loved him knowing it was a blatant lie. It always felt so wrong, but I never knew what to do when he said it. I'm wondering if anyone else has ever been caught in this situation of lying about their feelings. I'm usually pretty upfront and honest about how I feel, which is why it felt so icky.
kdark Posted July 12, 2008 Posted July 12, 2008 I've had the situations where I've been told I was loved by someone, usually the first time in the relationship, and in order to avoid an awkward situation, I just reciprocated the feelings, because I was still unsure about whether or not I was myself in love with her. The times when I've said it and don't mean it towards the end of a relationship, I always get caught because I subconciously slip in a "tone" of some kind that apparently all women can sense. It sickens me too, and makes me feel weak for not being up front with my feelings.
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