chasingrainbows25 Posted July 11, 2008 Posted July 11, 2008 Some of you may remember my thread on my cancelled first date with a guy from work. A quick refresher is that we click and find pockets of time every day to chat but it never seems enough time so he suggested that we spend some time "out of work" (i.e. date) and planned it for the following Sat, he then cancelled due to childcare issues with his ex and theres where everything started getting strange. The following week at work, he was odd, he avoided me at all costs and I felt like I had the plague and told him so. He was over apologetic and told me he had so many issues going on right now that his head was in bits. Then came the cliche of its not you its me.........so I basically told him that it was better if I stayed out of his way and then at least the "me" issue was one less for him to deal with. He begged me not to do that and slowly over the past few weeks we're right back where we started, finding pockets of time during the day to chat and him just brightening up my whole work day and vice/versa. He constantly compliments me on how I look and we have such a lovely time together. The other day, I was buying tickets for a show thats on in Aug for me and my son and I mentioned it to him and he said he'd love to take his son to that, so we've got 4 tickets now and are planning to go. I was really delighted as it means that we get to spend time together away from work but thats 4 weeks away and I'm not sure how the land lies now. After he cancelled our first date 3 wks ago and told me he had issues, one of those issues were that he felt he was being pressured by an ex gf to get back with her. I made no comment and just said that I was sure he'd make the right choice. He's a Scorpio and I'm wondering if any of that hocus pocus astrology stuff has any bearing on how he is. When we've chatted recently he's really opened up and told me some key things about himself that I know are quite important and personal to him. What am I going to do with this guy. I've given him space and we have such a lovely time together but still not sure how the land lies with us going on an actual date. I know he's a but pushed for cash (which he's mentioned a few times) but I thought of perhaps inviting him over to my place for dinner??? What does anyone think??? Am I just being silly ? CR x
JP77 Posted July 11, 2008 Posted July 11, 2008 Ditch him and find someone whose life isn't hectic. It's best to act like forrest gump; it's best to run.
Author chasingrainbows25 Posted July 11, 2008 Author Posted July 11, 2008 Ditch him...............are you serious ????? I may be naive but I was rather hopeing for some more positive advice
xpaperxcutx Posted July 11, 2008 Posted July 11, 2008 OHhhhhhhhhhh a Scorpio. They're quite manipulative with emotions, and all they see are black and white. Are you sure you want to date him? He's practically hot one minute, cold the next. Not to mention they can retreat into their own little universe if they're facing problems of they're own. They can disappear for long period of time and then show up again pretending nothing's happened.
Author chasingrainbows25 Posted July 11, 2008 Author Posted July 11, 2008 Yep Paper, sounds just like him although I dont usually go in for all that astrology stuff but you're spot on. Am I sure I want to date him, hmmmmmmmmm, I'm sure I want to get to know him a bit better and see where it takes us. I'm not ready just to give up, just yet. I'm just not sure of where we are.
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