sb129 Posted July 21, 2008 Posted July 21, 2008 s, he tells me that he has a "big surprise" for me at the end of august. I believe that he is going to propose,... i need opinions please:D And another thing: You asked for OPINIONS- Loveshack is not a fortune tellers board. How on earth are we supposed to know whether your BF is going to propose or not? Nobody here knows him. Nobody here can see into the future. We just gave you our opinions based on the information you gave us, and our respective experiences with this matter. Nobody agreed 100% with you, so your responses became immature and childish. Sheeesh.
Lauriebell82 Posted July 21, 2008 Posted July 21, 2008 whatever you guys are jerks i dont know why i joined this stupid board..... So you call us names when we are trying to help? I honestly don't think ANYONE in this thread said anything particularly mean or condesending to you. (i've heard worse BELIEVE ME). Like sb said, we have no clue whether or not he will propose to you. We were just trying to prepare you for the instance that he wouldn't. That is looking out for your best interest. We didn't want you to get your hopes up in case it didn't happen..would you rather us have told you that he was going to propose, got you all excited, then if it didn't happen you'd be crushed? We didn't want that. Chances are you would have come back here and asked us why we told you that he was going to propose.
Star Gazer Posted July 21, 2008 Posted July 21, 2008 would you rather us have told you that he was going to propose, got you all excited, then if it didn't happen you'd be crushed? Yes, because most people come here to be validated. They don't want to hear the truth, even if it hurts to hear it.
Trialbyfire Posted July 21, 2008 Posted July 21, 2008 What a lovely reply to some of the thoughtful and rational advice you have received. You joined because you wanted advice. You got advice, except unfortunately it wasn't exactly what you wanted to hear. Thats life, thats what happens when you ask for advice on a public forum. It doesn't make people "jerks" for expressing their opinion. Heres another one for you: Due to your most recent post, I think you are FAR too immature and young to even be contemplating marriage after only 10months with a man. I doubt you even have any concept of what marriage is about. its about alot more than a ring. Good luck with that. Quoted for truth...
Lauriebell82 Posted July 21, 2008 Posted July 21, 2008 Yes, because most people come here to be validated. They don't want to hear the truth, even if it hurts to hear it. I'm giving advice to another poster, don't drag me into this. Anyway I agree that pretty much EVERYONE who comes here usually does want that.
Star Gazer Posted July 21, 2008 Posted July 21, 2008 I'm giving advice to another poster, don't drag me into this. Anyway I agree that pretty much EVERYONE who comes here usually does want that. :laugh: Neither the world nor LS revolves around you, LB. In no way was I "dragging you in to this," but I'm glad you can finally recognize that you have that issue.
Star Gazer Posted July 21, 2008 Posted July 21, 2008 You joined because you wanted advice. You got advice, except unfortunately it wasn't exactly what you wanted to hear. Thats life, thats what happens when you ask for advice on a public forum. It doesn't make people "jerks" for expressing their opinion. Heres another one for you: Two snaps for that, SB! I totally agree.
Lauriebell82 Posted July 21, 2008 Posted July 21, 2008 :laugh: Neither the world nor LS revolves around you, LB. In no way was I "dragging you in to this," but I'm glad you can finally recognize that you have that issue. If only others could recognize it too. You quoted what I said though, so it was sort of obvious (in a passive-agressive way) that you were referring to me as you have made your feelings perfectly clear that "that's what I do."
Star Gazer Posted July 21, 2008 Posted July 21, 2008 If only others could recognize it too. You quoted what I said though, so it was sort of obvious (in a passive-agressive way) that you were referring to me as you have made your feelings perfectly clear that "that's what I do." You know me, LB. I'm not passive-aggressive, not by a light year. I tell it STRAIGHT UP. It's not all about you, LB. Let's get back to the OP's issue.
sb129 Posted July 21, 2008 Posted July 21, 2008 I think the OP has gone. I am sure she will only come back to crow if he DOES propose.
I Luv the Chariot OH Posted July 21, 2008 Posted July 21, 2008 I think the OP has gone. I am sure she will only come back to crow if he DOES propose. In other words...we will probably never hear from her again
sb129 Posted July 22, 2008 Posted July 22, 2008 In other words...we will probably never hear from her again You got it!
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