ioncebelieved Posted July 11, 2008 Posted July 11, 2008 There are few on here that know I am on a get away from The ATL, but for those that do not, I am in New Orleans visiting my twin borther and I have a good friend that is a women that I am seeing while here. This is why I write to say you think you have it bad? She is 36 years old living in a fairly expensive place. A little about her: She has reoccurring cancer (Hogkins disease), a POS ex boyfriend living in her home w/o a steady job or car living it up for free and she just found yesterday she is pregnant with this less than a man's child!!!! Tomorrow will be getting an abortion w/o him or his help. What infuriates me the most is when I walked into her more than modest home to see a complete pig stye!! Dishes upon dishes piled in the sink, clothes, garbage and junk every where all over the place. Dust was taking over amongst trash!!! Today I am going to be honest!!! It was a defining moment for me and my long suffering!! I found out quickly who I am and what MY EX is going to be missing out on!! The heart that I have felt so badly and she laid on her couch, I spent several hours cleaning her house!!! Her ex boyfriend walked in with his friends and acted like I was not even there. I am not saying I am a bad a$$, but that is my friend he has/ is been treating so badly and I would have liked for him to have stepped up to me!!! I am post op (2) months from a surgery/ fusion of C 6/7 and I would have not let that stopped me from cleaning the rest of my friend's place with his face!!! I have seen how this gal used to live and I could not believe what she has let some maggot do to her and her esteem. She stated to me that she wants him gone but is afraid of him. I said all that to say this: I didn't clean her house because I wanted regoniztion, I cleaned it because I am a WONDERFUL MAN THAT MY EX will one day regret screwing over and one day some WONDERFUL WOMEN will see that in me... NOT too mention I am a nice looking fellow to boot!! Anyways, SO, how bad do you got it??? Her house is way more expensive than I can afford by 100K, a Mercedes in the drive way and a LIFE OF complete miserey because of some MAN!!!! I found today what kind of man I am and you know what? I AM THAT KIND OF MAN your mom said would come into yor life... I am not rich, nowhere even close, but I have many attributes that I am quite proud of and to see my friend mistreated, abused and completely dogged out HURTS!!! Christ, she is way better than this and as I put my arms around I told her this!!! Gentleman, what kind of man are you????? I will never doubt the kind of man I was to my ex because I know that I was the kind of man she didn't deserve!!!!! BTW, having a great time in The Big Easy having a good time other than seeing MY Friend mistreated so badly!!!!!
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