Upset about a smug gal fren boasting on her blissful relationship

[iwanttolive]

Just wanna vent my frustration.. Mr relationship is going thru a rough patch.. I felt slightly better yesterday before dinner, telling myself i should treat myself well and that i don't need someone to validate my worth. I went for dinner wif two gal pals. They knew i've been depressed lately and extremely sad because my r/s problem. Yet one of them was so bloody insensitive! She went all bubbly describing how she was still in honeymoon period after 6 months, how he treats her really well and pamper her.. The dinner ended pretty late and her bf picked her up to drive her home. And she was like "oohh, ahhh.. he's such an angeeel" Me and the other gal pal had to take the subway home. My mood went downhill again to the point my sleep was disturbed because i felt so miserable.. I know i should not compare my situation with others but she's like digging deeper into my wound..

[MalachiX]

Just wanna vent my frustration.. Mr relationship is going thru a rough patch.. I felt slightly better yesterday before dinner, telling myself i should treat myself well and that i don't need someone to validate my worth. I went for dinner wif two gal pals. They knew i've been depressed lately and extremely sad because my r/s problem. Yet one of them was so bloody insensitive! She went all bubbly describing how she was still in honeymoon period after 6 months, how he treats her really well and pamper her.. The dinner ended pretty late and her bf picked her up to drive her home. And she was like "oohh, ahhh.. he's such an angeeel" Me and the other gal pal had to take the subway home. My mood went downhill again to the point my sleep was disturbed because i felt so miserable.. I know i should not compare my situation with others but she's like digging deeper into my wound..

 

I find it's helpful when encountering a situation like this to take a blunt object and begin bludgening the "happy" person with it repeatedly. It's not essential that they die but you do need to make sure that you break their jaw and probably spine. Trust me when I tell you that they'll understand (and, if they don't, they'll have a broken jaw and be paralyzed and thus won't be able to voice any complaints or tell the police who their attacker was). I would also suggest running over her boyfriend with your car.

[replicator]

Just wanna vent my frustration.. Mr relationship is going thru a rough patch.. I felt slightly better yesterday before dinner, telling myself i should treat myself well and that i don't need someone to validate my worth. I went for dinner wif two gal pals. They knew i've been depressed lately and extremely sad because my r/s problem. Yet one of them was so bloody insensitive! She went all bubbly describing how she was still in honeymoon period after 6 months, how he treats her really well and pamper her.. The dinner ended pretty late and her bf picked her up to drive her home. And she was like "oohh, ahhh.. he's such an angeeel" Me and the other gal pal had to take the subway home. My mood went downhill again to the point my sleep was disturbed because i felt so miserable.. I know i should not compare my situation with others but she's like digging deeper into my wound..

 

That's just wrong. I would avoid friends like that for a while.

 

I get anxiety when I see old friends, because they always ask me how my 'girlfriend' is doing. I don't want to explain the whole spiel. They'll react all shocked, and ask me if I'm ok. I try to smile and brush it off, but I'm pretty transparent. The hurt is all over my face.