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This girl is great...sweetheart doesnt drink or smoke...just lives her life one day at a time...she is going out with this wigger who has gotten trouble by the police, smokes weed all day everyday yet she hates it..why would such a nice girl go for such a loser like that?

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Because he makes her feel good, she has low self esteem, is attracted to the bad boys and he no doubt has a huge..

 

The list of reasons are endless. I'm a different loser, a Weezer styled loser and I attract some women.

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This girl is great...sweetheart doesnt drink or smoke...just lives her life one day at a time...she is going out with this wigger who has gotten trouble by the police, smokes weed all day everyday yet she hates it..why would such a nice girl go for such a loser like that?

 

Lack of self esteem has caused her to believe that she can't do any better is one reason.

 

The classic "I like a challenge and I think I can change him" mentality

 

Like the above poster said, the reasons are endless.

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Florence Nightingale syndrome, relationship version.

 

She "saves" him; he's loves her and cherishes her forever :)

 

If her brain is fully formed, she'll likely be that way for life, deep down. Don't let her trample you. BTDT....

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Sorry, but I think you just jealous of the so-called loser, coz he has a superb girl.

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Sorry, but I think you just jealous of the so-called loser, coz he has a superb girl.

 

 

Yep, i am jelous that i dont have a police record

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It's not about her wanting to save him. He has qualities that she is attracted to. She likes him and wants to change (save) him to be better.

 

What I'm saying is saving somebody only happens if there is attraction there FIRST.

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Yep, i am jelous that i dont have a police record

 

No, c'mon.. You're jealous because he has the girl you wish to have. Too obvious.

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It's not about her wanting to save him. He has qualities that she is attracted to. She likes him and wants to change (save) him to be better.

 

What I'm saying is saving somebody only happens if there is attraction there FIRST.

 

Very true. He may not be such a loser afterall..

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I know some serial killers who are great with babies :D

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Maybe he's fantastic in bed.

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Maybe he's fantastic in bed.

 

I bet he has a great array of skidmarks in his underpants.

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This girl is great...sweetheart doesnt drink or smoke...just lives her life one day at a time...she is going out with this wigger who has gotten trouble by the police, smokes weed all day everyday yet she hates it..why would such a nice girl go for such a loser like that?

 

What is a "wigger"? She's definitely hung up on the sex.

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What is a "wigger"? She's definitely hung up on the sex.

 

A wigger in Britain is a white boy who acts like Snoop Dog and Dr Dre. It's considered non-PC because if you change the W to N you get a really bad, naughty word.

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Thank you. You learn something new everyday around here.:)

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Excluding the pubs, of course :D

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Excluding the pubs, of course :D

 

Our Government is evening closing those down now. I remember how glorious the British Pub was in the 20's to the 90's and now Gordon Brown wants to get rid of those because they offend the Government who in turn blames Islam.

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Well, that's cr@p.... The pubs are amongst my best memories of our travels to the UK. Great way to get immersed (no pun intended) in local culture :)

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I love Pubs, what are the Pubs in the US like and how do they differ to the one's here?

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Oh, they're full of losers hitting on nice girls :D

 

IME, not much different, except the feel to me is more declasse, if such a term can be applied to pubs. It's hard to explain. For example, the first time I went to Australia, I found the pubs to be loud, boisterous and even a bit scary (to me). But, that said, I only got one warning to remove my cap before the next round of drinks was on me :D Also, I saw obviously sloshed guys watching out for the ladies and opening the doors for them and standing when a lady came up to the group. A very interesting mix. I saw a lot of the same in New Zealand. In the UK, it was a bit more casual, but still an interesting mix of refinement and chaos.

 

I think the US is a bit more feral, to plagiarize an Australian adjective.

 

Hope that helps! :)

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Oh, they're full of losers hitting on nice girls :D

 

IME, not much different, except the feel to me is more declasse, if such a term can be applied to pubs. It's hard to explain. For example, the first time I went to Australia, I found the pubs to be loud, boisterous and even a bit scary (to me). But, that said, I only got one warning to remove my cap before the next round of drinks was on me :D Also, I saw obviously sloshed guys watching out for the ladies and opening the doors for them and standing when a lady came up to the group. A very interesting mix. I saw a lot of the same in New Zealand. In the UK, it was a bit more casual, but still an interesting mix of refinement and chaos.

 

I think the US is a bit more feral, to plagiarize an Australian adjective.

 

Hope that helps! :)

 

The UK pubs are also full of soccer hooligans. The fights I have seen pubs is scary, glass everywhere. Blood everywhere and the landlord getting his bsdm g-string in a twist. Ah. Britain what are we like hey?

 

Thanks for the post, mate! You take care now.

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D@mn, I'll remember to go during World Cup. It'll be like the red hour in "Return of the Archons" :D

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This girl is great...sweetheart doesnt drink or smoke...just lives her life one day at a time...she is going out with this wigger who has gotten trouble by the police, smokes weed all day everyday yet she hates it..why would such a nice girl go for such a loser like that?

 

You're discovering a painful truth. The scorecard you are using to evaluate men as "winners" and "losers" is completely different than the one women use. Don't lose yourself so much in what women do and think that you lose track of who you are and what you value and what you want out of life independent of women.

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