geotaz Posted July 10, 2008 Posted July 10, 2008 okay well this girl at worked joined about 2months ago, and we got on really well from first day. She is really easy to talk to and i got too know her really quickly. After about 3/4 weeks i relised that i really like her i wasnt sure if this was because i saw her every weekend at work and always had a laugh etc then one of my friends at work noticed i liked her and encouraged me to ask her out after work. So i sort of hinted towards meeting after work some time, i was talking about a new film out and she said if you want we could go see it if your not busy during the week i wasnt really expecting her too ask me lol but i jumped at the chance soo she gave me her number and we arranged to meet at train station and go cinema. So i met her at train station still not knowing how she see's me like as a mate or more? things wasnt akward like we always had something too talk about and i could make her laugh alot, and she choose the film and i payed. During the film we never did anything like hold hands, the whole arm over shoulder thing, i was too nervous and i didnt know if thats what she wanted. we had a good laugh and i waited with her at the train station for like 30 mins because her train was delayed and she said i could go but i said i would wait with her... when her train came she gave me a hug, and as i was walking home she text me too say thank you for 2nite had gd time and cheers for waiting wiv me etc (along those lines) At work after that we got on well like joking around with each other, but i still dont know how she see's me like she jokes around with the other person around are age aswell (my mate who encouraged me to go cinema with her) well idecided to text her too see if she wanted too go dinner before she went away on holiday and she wanted to, then later in the week she said that she really couldnt because she had no money and that she had loads of things too get for her holiday etc but that when she gets back she definatly wanted too go. so i was like oki fair enuf I text her before she went away to say have a good time etc might even miss you a lil bit , she replied aww ty have good time wat ever your doing haha i bet you wont be able to cope without me she is away on holiday atm gets back sunday, also her birthday is on thursday and we work together late night 5-8 that day so really i want too know 1) do you think she likes me as a friend or more 2) what should i do next, text her on sunday or let her text/call me first 3) should i get her anything for i birthday if so what ? i really do like her alot now but am scared of messing things up like if i tell her how i feel and she doesnt feel same work will be really akward but if i dont do it then il never know PLEASE HELP sorry for the essay x ( i wasnt sure what topic to put this in so ive put it in two)
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