nunyanunya Posted August 2, 2008 Posted August 2, 2008 @Angel, stellar advice. OLLIE! DONT GIVE UP! COME BACK AND TALK!
MWC_LifeBeginsAt40 Posted August 9, 2008 Posted August 9, 2008 Your advice is decent, but your personal reasoning skills seriously lack. You have a history of being a cheating ho... and he makes you that way by being insecure? I meant that was how I used to justify it. Ollie, I am in a similar situation but will save it for another post. Watch your mouth. I was a cheater, and a mess, but not a "ho".
AmyKidders26 Posted August 21, 2008 Posted August 21, 2008 I know exactly how u feel. What u have got to ask yourself is "What is the worst that can happen" u could loose her but if you carry on this way u wiill loose her anyway as you'll push her away. I used to have the same attacks when my man didnt come home at nights out and it became a real problem. I began to have panick attacks and never really got over them, when ever i am in an uncomfortable situation my chest would tighten and all the emotions a felt when he didnt come home came back with a vengence! Trying to explain this to people was useless, id get why r u with him etc etc but u cant help who u fall in love with. I couldnt stop him going out as it was nagging and that made it all worse! I am back with my man and i dont get wound up anymore as i do something else. I dont sit and think about what their doing as you cant change it. nothing u do or say will change the fact they COULD cheat. U could cheat, i could cheat u just have to make the relationship that u have amazing so they dont want to cheat!!!!
Alibi Posted September 3, 2008 Posted September 3, 2008 I do the same thing you do only with my H. I think that if you just talk to her about your insecurities and tell her that you need her help with this. If she does love you and is willing to help you she should be willing to go the extra mile while she is out to show you everything is ok. Im not saying not go, but maybe a few extra phone calls to you in the night, maybe txt message and patience is a must. I know its not her problem its yours but if she loves you she should be willing to help you through your emotional baggage.
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