xpaperxcutx Posted July 10, 2008 Posted July 10, 2008 Okay, I know how everyone's encouraging me to go out with vain guy (whom we shall now call 6 (cause of his abs)) and I took your advices to heart. I really did!! ( I swear!)... I mean we talked on the phone, and we chatted online... and of course he has a great personality, perhaps just a bit slow. For a minute I could see us having coffee or going out to dinner together but then he starts asking about my ex- boyfriend; which in part makes him bring up his ex- girlfriend. I started getting a little uneasy, because at this point 6 started going into detail how his ex was a gyaru ( a.k.a GAL: girls that tan alot and are really materialistic, skips school, and go out partying all night) and how he loves girls like that, especially since they dress sexy. How do you compare to someone like that?
Lauriebell82 Posted July 10, 2008 Posted July 10, 2008 Hmm, the term "gyrau" is a new one to me. Sounds like this guy is real shallow though. So when he was talking about the ex-gf was he implying that he wanted YOU to be these things, or that he isn't into you because you AREN'T those things? If you aren't dating or anything why did he feel the need to ask about your ex bfs anyway? Man this guy sounds weird. If he wants to go find another "gryau" then let him!
Yamaha Posted July 10, 2008 Posted July 10, 2008 Guys should learn that you never bring up the exes with a new date. They may get the impresswion you aren't over them and your date has ended before it even begain. He is dumb in telling you what he wants in a women especially if you don't meet his criteria. It would make me feel uncomfortable if a women did this to me and I would never see her again.
Lauriebell82 Posted July 10, 2008 Posted July 10, 2008 For a minute I could see us having coffee or going out to dinner together but then he starts asking about my ex- boyfriend; which in part makes him bring up his ex- girlfriend. I started getting a little uneasy, because at this point 6 started going into detail how his ex was a gyaru I don't think they actually went out on a date, this was just some random conversation.
Jilly Bean Posted July 10, 2008 Posted July 10, 2008 X - you keep trying to find reasons to dismiss this guy. First it was the myspace page, then his pics, now his ex-gf. Talk about a full-blown sabotage. I don't get why you're bothering with him when all you are doing to throwing him under the bus.
Lauriebell82 Posted July 10, 2008 Posted July 10, 2008 X - you keep trying to find reasons to dismiss this guy. First it was the myspace page, then his pics, now his ex-gf. Talk about a full-blown sabotage. I don't get why you're bothering with him when all you are doing to throwing him under the bus. It sounds like she isn't fully ready to let him go..and you are right jilly she def. should. This guy sounds like an idiot. Why would you even WANT a bf like that? I sure wouldn't.
blind_otter Posted July 10, 2008 Posted July 10, 2008 Ew, I hate it when potential dates bring up qualities about their ex's that they liked. Is that some sort of clumsy hint that you should metamorphosize into something like they describe? Or maybe he is honestly just being upfront about what he likes. If this is not you, don't twist yourself up to try to act like something that you're not.
Author xpaperxcutx Posted July 10, 2008 Author Posted July 10, 2008 Hmm, the term "gyrau" is a new one to me. Sounds like this guy is real shallow though. So when he was talking about the ex-gf was he implying that he wanted YOU to be these things, or that he isn't into you because you AREN'T those things? If you aren't dating or anything why did he feel the need to ask about your ex bfs anyway? Man this guy sounds weird. If he wants to go find another "gryau" then let him! Well the term gyaru is from japan, so basically he dated her when he was in japan. See the thing was at first, I thought he was vain ( hence "Vain" post) but other LS'ers believed that I was judging him too early, so I took their advice and try getting to know by talking with him. I might have jumped the gun on that one, but I realized that based on our conversations ( on the phone) he sounded really sincere and had a really outgoing personality, albeit he doesn't get most of my jokes. But he has told me that he was looking for a gf and that I met all his requirements. My apprehension is that he's just looking for a girl to play around with, not anything serious.
couchmonkey Posted July 10, 2008 Posted July 10, 2008 Six Pack. Dim. Likes unambitious, self-destructive party girls. Sounds like a catch. And what are your priorities? Perhaps the six pack?
Author xpaperxcutx Posted July 10, 2008 Author Posted July 10, 2008 It sounds like she isn't fully ready to let him go..and you are right jilly she def. should. This guy sounds like an idiot. Why would you even WANT a bf like that? I sure wouldn't. I never said I wanted a bf. We could be friends; I just find his advances distasteful.
Author xpaperxcutx Posted July 10, 2008 Author Posted July 10, 2008 Six Pack. Dim. Likes unambitious, self-destructive party girls. Sounds like a catch. And what are your priorities? Perhaps the six pack? I never said I wanted to date him. But everyones says I'm sabotaging my own dates and I should give people chances so I can actually enjoy myself for once. I only just found out he was " dim".
Author xpaperxcutx Posted July 10, 2008 Author Posted July 10, 2008 Well the term gyaru is from japan, so basically he dated her when he was in japan. See the thing was at first, I thought he was vain ( hence "Vain" post) but other LS'ers believed that I was judging him too early, so I took their advice and try getting to know by talking with him. I might have jumped the gun on that one, but I realized that based on our conversations ( on the phone) he sounded really sincere and had a really outgoing personality, albeit he doesn't get most of my jokes. But he has told me that he was looking for a gf and that I met all his requirements. My apprehension is that he's just looking for a girl to play around with, not anything serious. Requirements meaning fun, outgoing, hot, and not shy...
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