She just said alot of good things about me..is there a chance that i could date her?

[Brady_to_Moss]

Just talking to this girl on AIM. heres what she said..

 

I dunno, to me your right i dont know you that well, But i love talking to you, your nice and you actually like care about what im saying and listen, which are wicked good qualities, esp in a guy lol you just seem like a sweetheart, but you know how to be funny and have a good time.

 

 

Shes got a BF and just told me things are going bad inbetween them... whats goin on in her mind?

[monkey00]

Just talking to this girl on AIM. heres what she said..

 

I dunno, to me your right i dont know you that well, But i love talking to you, your nice and you actually like care about what im saying and listen, which are wicked good qualities, esp in a guy lol you just seem like a sweetheart, but you know how to be funny and have a good time.

 

 

Shes got a BF and just told me things are going bad inbetween them... whats goin on in her mind?

 

You need to give more backstory than that. It's too open-ended to imply anything.

 

Anyway lesson learned with girls with bf, they're bad news...not worth the trouble!

[HelloHello]

She is bored with her current boyfriend. She is actually telling you all the things that she wishes her current boyfriend was but isn't. Continue talking to her and don't feel bad that she has a boyfriend. He is obviously someone that isn't satisfying her in certain areas of their relationships.

 

Hope that helps!

[backto1]

No way, F*CK that! Don't be the d-bag trying to pull someone else's girl. Every relationship goes through tough times and you don't want to be the "friendly guy" trying to take advantage of a girl going through relationship problems. Let them work it out for themselves. If they can't do that and she's a good person, she would break up with him. If she's trying to make a smooth transition from one boyfriend to the next fling, do you think that's the kind of girl you want to date?

 

Say you guys get together and somehow it lasts for a couple of years (which it probably wouldn't since you're in the rebound position)...things won't be fresh and exciting, you'll be comfortable with each other and fighting occasionally. That's when true love potential shows itself. Would she stay with you and put in the EFFORT it takes to continue a loving relationship, would she break up with you or would she start talking to other "friendly guys"?

 

I used to think more along the lines of "f*ck it, if she wants someone else then I guess that's just too bad for me." But the reality is that relationships go through boring and/or tough times. The test comes in how the people involved deal with that. If she deals with it by talking to someone else while keeping her BF on a string, it's not worth your time.

[Citizen Erased]

Anyone that says "wicked good qualities" is not dating material.

 

Neither are girls with boyfriends. Don't get pulled into all of that drama. Chances are that she won't leave the guy anyway. Even if she does leave him for you, do you really think you will be able to trust that she won't do the same thing to you?

[Yamaha]

I told you to leave the gal alone and let her deal with the bf. You don't want to get in the situation of liking as gal with a bf. She sees you as a friend and that is probably where you will stay so let her be and find someone not taken.

[Jilly Bean]

Anyone that says "wicked good qualities" is not dating material.

 

That's a Boston thing. You know, as in TITLE TOWN?

 

Brady - you're in the friend zone, hon. If a girl is telling you her BF problems, it's akin to telling you about her yeast infection. Just not something we do with someone we are really interested in...

[Citizen Erased]

That's a Boston thing. You know, as in TITLE TOWN?

 

Brady - you're in the friend zone, hon. If a girl is telling you her BF problems, it's akin to telling you about her yeast infection. Just not something we do with someone we are really interested in...

 

Title Town?