girl2 Posted July 9, 2008 Posted July 9, 2008 Hello all I am new to these boards and really could do with some advice / thoughts on my situation. I have been involved with someone for a year and three months now. However he has been involved with his girlfriend for a year and a half. I know I truly love him and this situation is really killing me, I think I am actually getting depressed by the whole thing, but I cant seem to drag myself away. I dont know whats going to happen, I think I am beginning to come to the conclusion that he isn't going to end it with her to be with me. I have tried to end this many, many times, only to have him tell me to "relax", "take things easy" etc etc etc. And I always end up back again. He lives with her the best part of every week, I only see him once a fortnight, yet he's on the phone 4-5 times a day. I just dont know why he wants to keep me here, if he doesn't love me, if he doesn't love me, why wont he let me go? And why is he doing this to his girlfriend? That has been really getting to me lately as well. Can anyone shed any light? Thanks. (I know Im in the wrong here by the way).
Owl Posted July 9, 2008 Posted July 9, 2008 Why should he change a thing? He's got his main gf for most of the time, and gets to come tap it out with you every few weeks. He's got it made. He's got no reason to change anything. There really isn't much more to understand about the situation. Its going to stay the same for as long as you tolerate it.
torranceshipman Posted July 10, 2008 Posted July 10, 2008 Yea, sounds like he has his proper girlfriend, then he turns to you for a bit of fun every now and then...its not fair of him and he doesnt deserve you! He's using you sweetie, dump this loser and wait for a lovely new single guy to come along.
bish Posted July 10, 2008 Posted July 10, 2008 Hello all I am new to these boards and really could do with some advice / thoughts on my situation. I have been involved with someone for a year and three months now. However he has been involved with his girlfriend for a year and a half. If he had a gf, why are you with him? I know I truly love him and this situation is really killing me You love a guy that is playing both you and his other gf? Man, this guy has his stuff together if he knows he has you wrapped around his little finger. Why do you want a guy like this? I think I am actually getting depressed by the whole thing, but I cant seem to drag myself away. I dont know whats going to happen, I think I am beginning to come to the conclusion that he isn't going to end it with her to be with me. I have tried to end this many, many times, only to have him tell me to "relax", "take things easy" etc etc etc. And I always end up back again. He lives with her the best part of every week, I only see him once a fortnight, yet he's on the phone 4-5 times a day. This guy is a big time player. Just walk away. If you don't, he will continue to rip your heart out. HE HAS 2 GIRLFRIENDS FOR CRYING OUT LOUD. And the only reason he has 2 girlfriends is because you and this other girl allow it. Have you thought about having a talk with his other gf?
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