ddkeifo Posted July 9, 2008 Posted July 9, 2008 I really need some advice, please help me. This is my first boyfriend so I am new to this. There is this girl who is a friend of my boyfriend's, though I find her annoying and personally think she has a long-time crush on my boyfriend. She has planned things and cut me out, but invited my boyfriend (while we were a couple.) I practically had to call him up in tears to get him to ask her to invite me. I didn't think they were friends anymore, because he told me how much he disliked her (this dislike had nothing to do with me). Now I am in another city working for a few months, (we stayed together) but I will be moving back to our place of work soon. He saw her one-on-one for lunch while I was away, (because she had been calling him, I assume.) He didn't tell me about the lunch, (even though I asked him if he had seen anyone in particular) I found out through a mutual friend of ours. Should I be concerned? Should I confront him about it, because I feel very insecure about this, (it seems he can't stand up to her)? Please help!
Ohio14inter Posted July 9, 2008 Posted July 9, 2008 I'm not the one too answer this question because I'm quite a bit insecure on this type of thing as well, but yeah, if it were me I'd be concerned a bit. But if you guys have a real strong relationship then that might be a different story.
Ohio14inter Posted July 9, 2008 Posted July 9, 2008 also, if you can REALLY tell that this girl is after your boyfriend then I think it is time to step up. Perhaps talk to your boyfriend in detail about your problem with her. If they're doing stuff together without you then that's not right. Esp. if he's not telling you. Don't let this woman or your boyfriend dictate everything and/or walk all over you!
carhill Posted July 9, 2008 Posted July 9, 2008 How long have you been dating? Been exclusive? Is this "friend" someone your BF knew prior to meeting you? How old are you?
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