ddkeifo Posted July 9, 2008 Posted July 9, 2008 I really need some advice, please help me. This is my first boyfriend so I am new to this. There is this girl who is a friend of my boyfriend's, though I find her annoying and personally think she has a long-time crush on my boyfriend. She has planned things and cut me out, but invited my boyfriend (while we were a couple.) I practically had to call him up in tears to get him to ask her to invite me. I didn't think they were friends anymore, because he told me how much he disliked her (this dislike had nothing to do with me). Now I am in another city working for a few months, (we stayed together) but I will be moving back to our place of work soon. He saw her one-on-one for lunch while I was away, (because she had been calling him, I assume.) He didn't tell me about the lunch, (even though I asked him if he had seen anyone in particular) I found out through a mutual friend of ours. Should I be concerned? Should I confront him about it, because I feel very insecure about this, (it seems he can't stand up to her)? Please help!
Loxylox Posted July 9, 2008 Posted July 9, 2008 I really need some advice, please help me. This is my first boyfriend so I am new to this. There is this girl who is a friend of my boyfriend's, though I find her annoying and personally think she has a long-time crush on my boyfriend. She has planned things and cut me out, but invited my boyfriend (while we were a couple.) I practically had to call him up in tears to get him to ask her to invite me. I didn't think they were friends anymore, because he told me how much he disliked her (this dislike had nothing to do with me). Now I am in another city working for a few months, (we stayed together) but I will be moving back to our place of work soon. He saw her one-on-one for lunch while I was away, (because she had been calling him, I assume.) He didn't tell me about the lunch, (even though I asked him if he had seen anyone in particular) I found out through a mutual friend of ours. Should I be concerned? Should I confront him about it, because I feel very insecure about this, (it seems he can't stand up to her)? Please help! You know its weird, most of us have the answers to other peoples problems in life yet, we don't have them for ourselves. To be honest, I think you should sit down and talk with him, ask him. If he says its nothing, and its still going on this way, leave him. Theres so many other guys out there that will not do this to you, especially if your friends with this girl, cause thats just wrong!
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