pkts3 Posted July 9, 2008 Posted July 9, 2008 I dated a guy for two and a half years...he was verbally abusive...I fell hard for him and he broke up with me and dated a girl I thought he had been flirting with before. They dated for two years and during that two years I tried my best to get over him. From time to time he would call me but we would only get upset. One day I got the courage to hang out with him. It was awkward but amazing at the same time. He apoligized and held me while I cried for everything that happend. He flirted with me but nothing too major. I'm not sure if he's still with that girl or not but we talked about her and he says shes controlling and he's not like that anymore and he doesn't want to be in that kind of relationship after all. Should I take him back or wait and see what happens?
kizik Posted July 9, 2008 Posted July 9, 2008 If he was once verbally abusive, he will be verbally abusive again, once the initial honeymoon get-together wears off. People don't change, IMO.
jon01 Posted July 9, 2008 Posted July 9, 2008 If he was once verbally abusive, he will be verbally abusive again, once the initial honeymoon get-together wears off. People don't change, IMO. So you think if you ever did something bad or had some bad habit, you could never correct yourself? Sounds like a pretty pessimistic and hopeless outlook on life you have there.
Fun2BMe Posted July 9, 2008 Posted July 9, 2008 I wouild be "just friends" to test the waters, see how he treats you as he grows more comfortable around you and find out if he is in fact really over the other girl or has he done something to cause her to give him the boot, is maybe temporarily out of town or what. Don't jump into suddenly taking him back and being his gf overnight. Take it slow and look out for the signs that you didn't like about him before to see if they're still there.
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