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This is a little embarrassing, but I gotta swallow my pride and ask for help, again.

 

I met this girl. She was really great. Beautiful, great personality. We totally clicked. So I got her number and we started talking. I literally have only known her for like three days, but I was laying it on really thick. Giving her a lot of compliments, telling her how much I liked her and that I was thinking about her all the time. Stuff like that. At first she seemed cool with it.

But yesterday, she was pretty distant. She didn't feel like calling me at all last night. She didn't have much to say to me, which was quite a difference from previous night where she was all about talking to me, we talked until 4 in the morning, both nights.

So, I kinda asked her about it, and she said it felt a little fast. I basically haven't talked to her since then, because I am afraid of screwing this up. She hasn't attempted to contact me either.

So, can anyone give me any advice? Obviously, I need to take it slower. But, have I blown it? What do you guys think?

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Nobody here knows if you've blown it. Why don't you wait and see if she contacts you. It sounds like she wants to set the pace. She knows your interested.Keep your mind busy on other things. Easier said than done.Hopefully she will contact you soon.Better to chill abit than to come across as needy, desperate or pushy eh.

Good luck

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