loveinlife Posted July 9, 2008 Share Posted July 9, 2008 The girl im with has been spending more time with her friends... does it seem she is disinterested in the relationship? -she is spending time with her guy friends. -she broke up with her 7 years relationship with her ex 4 months ago, I met her 3.5 months back. -she still shares her cell phone with her exbf eventhough she has money to pay for her own plan. -she is going on a camping trip with mostly all dudes in two weeks. -haven't seen her for over 6 weeks because she went on a trip to visit her family. -she is out going. -parties a lot. A few days ago, i asked her what is our status, she says she still likes to date me intimately. Yesterday i brought up about i would like to spend more time together, she says she likes this pace we are going and that she just got back from the vacation and would need to take care of things(bills and spending time with her friends because they asked her way before i did and have promised). What is the best thing to do for me? Link to post Share on other sites
roghornio Posted July 9, 2008 Share Posted July 9, 2008 Im sorry to say this but walk away with some dignity before she dumps you. It sounds like you were the rebound - in fact id bet my house on it. Sorry - that sounds harsh my friend. Link to post Share on other sites
aubree1982 Posted July 10, 2008 Share Posted July 10, 2008 I know exactly what she is going through, she need time for herself right now to get over her ex and find out who she is again. If you truly like her then it may be worth the wait to let her get all these things out of her system. If you push her too much she's likely to pull away even more. She will respect you for giving her the time and space she needs. Can I say if it will work out, well no. If you are unwilling to wait around for her then you need to move on. Don't pressure her to much about the status of your relationship. Go out and spend time with your friends and spend time with her when she's available...not saying you only need to schedule things around her schedule. If in a month or two you still find yourself in this same situation then you should probably just move on. Good luck! Link to post Share on other sites
Balthazar Posted July 10, 2008 Share Posted July 10, 2008 The girl im with has been spending more time with her friends... does it seem she is disinterested in the relationship? -she is spending time with her guy friends. -she broke up with her 7 years relationship with her ex 4 months ago, I met her 3.5 months back. -she still shares her cell phone with her exbf eventhough she has money to pay for her own plan. -she is going on a camping trip with mostly all dudes in two weeks. -haven't seen her for over 6 weeks because she went on a trip to visit her family. -she is out going. -parties a lot. A few days ago, i asked her what is our status, she says she still likes to date me intimately. Yesterday i brought up about i would like to spend more time together, she says she likes this pace we are going and that she just got back from the vacation and would need to take care of things(bills and spending time with her friends because they asked her way before i did and have promised). What is the best thing to do for me? WTF? This post has to be a joke, right? Link to post Share on other sites
JP77 Posted July 10, 2008 Share Posted July 10, 2008 . If you truly like her then it may be worth the wait to let her get all these things out of her system. Good luck! Are you nuts? Do not and I mean do not wait around for a woman, they are not worth it. Link to post Share on other sites
LoveDeluxe78 Posted July 10, 2008 Share Posted July 10, 2008 The girl im with has been spending more time with her friends... does it seem she is disinterested in the relationship? -she is spending time with her guy friends. -she broke up with her 7 years relationship with her ex 4 months ago, I met her 3.5 months back. -she still shares her cell phone with her exbf eventhough she has money to pay for her own plan. -she is going on a camping trip with mostly all dudes in two weeks. -haven't seen her for over 6 weeks because she went on a trip to visit her family. -she is out going. -parties a lot. A few days ago, i asked her what is our status, she says she still likes to date me intimately. Yesterday i brought up about i would like to spend more time together, she says she likes this pace we are going and that she just got back from the vacation and would need to take care of things(bills and spending time with her friends because they asked her way before i did and have promised). What is the best thing to do for me? I will give you the benefit of the doubt and assume that this is a serious post..... With that said, this is NOT a relationship nor is this even DATING...it's NOT even a friendship. She clearly is NOT interested in you at all!!!! She hasn't seen you in 6 weeks, out of 3.5 month time period? And she met you half a month after she broke up with her BF of 7 years? How does someone get over someone they've been with for 7 years in 15 days? It sounds like this girl is really insecure and she just attached herself to you immediately, but has no interest in really spending time with you or wanting to have this develop into something meaningful... She is using you for something here........ My advice, walk away, actually RUN away...Nothing lost here!!!! Link to post Share on other sites
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