dazed.1 Posted July 9, 2008 Posted July 9, 2008 What the helll am I doing? I jsut posted yesterday about my ex texting me after three weeks of no contact. He texted me 4 times yesterday, after the first two I just said "You broke my heart, I need to heal". He sent two more messages apologizing for that, saying he should have protected me and now I am likely gone forever. I ignored them. Then this morning he sent me a message asking how my summer job was going. Like a fool I answered. Then we had a bit of a conversation (all about work and that stuff, nothing about us) until I said I needed to get back to work. Now I've opened the door...I don't know to what....but I don't know what to do. Ican't have him in my life, we can't be together so I don't want anything....what should I do...I don't want to hurt his feelings.
wareagle Posted July 9, 2008 Posted July 9, 2008 Shut the door again, go complete nc! His feeling although they matter to you, THEY SHOULDN"T!!! He didn't care about or respect your feelings when he walked out the door, so why in the hell should you care if you hurt his? If you want this man out of your life go strict nc, I know it's hard, very hard, but in order for you to heal you MUST do this! Goodluck!!
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