Author Alpha Female Posted July 11, 2008 Author Posted July 11, 2008 We all know that most women like the challenge to change a man (unconsciously)... and that once he's changed.. she's tired of him.. Gosh, how true is that! I just am already remodeling my home, and don't need anymore improvement projects.
LoveDeluxe78 Posted July 11, 2008 Posted July 11, 2008 Date With The Younger Guy Version 2.0 lol Details are there and wanted your perspective.... Oh yeah you told me something turned him off and to ignore him! That's exactly what I'm doing, but unlike Alpha's situation, I was digging this guy!!!!
Lizzie60 Posted July 11, 2008 Posted July 11, 2008 I so agree with you on this! I just wrote that back to Deluxe in a posting. Yes, he's gorgeous and with an incredible body, but just no game and no real sex appeal. Who knows. Maybe some boring night I'll ask him if he wants to come over and see my pool. ha ha! I met this young guy 2 years ago... we chatted on the Internet... then a few hours on the phone a few times.. we then agreed to meet for a coffee... He was nice but rather 'reserved'... He said he was looking for older women only (for sex)... he was early 20s, 23 or 25... He looked very much like Sebastian Pegott (sp) on Canadian Idol... blond curly hair.. former model (jeans)... amazing body... beautiful face.. anyway... First date : coffee and chit-chat only... see if we had chemistry. We did.. He called me about a week later to meet again.. since he was very interested... I knew that he was in for sex only... (me too.. ).. then I invited him home... we were open about our expectations.. We end up in my King size bed... He was crazy about my 'girls' ..has never seen anything so big... ... We kissed.. I then touched him.. he came in less time I could count to 10...... shoot... all over my clean sheets... no oral.. nothing.. he was so freaken excited... I was disappointed.. got out of bed... got into the shower.. he apologized... anyway... that was it.. he called me several times after that.. but I always had some 'excuses' .. he finally got the hint..
TudorII Posted July 11, 2008 Posted July 11, 2008 I believe this thread should change to the topic of previous sexual experiences and ladies please feel free to drescribe in detail your selves as Lizzie did taking about her "girls". Please continue......
Lizzie60 Posted July 11, 2008 Posted July 11, 2008 Oh yeah you told me something turned him off and to ignore him! That's exactly what I'm doing, but unlike Alpha's situation, I was digging this guy!!!! Oh OK.. I went back and read your initial post.. I wrote a post somewhere (forgot which thread) about my very first encounter with a guy 18 yr younger... I met him at a 'single dinner'... he was one of the most beautiful guy I've seen to this date.. probably my 3rd best looking dude... anyway.. we dated 'intensely' for about 4-5 weeks... then POUF.. nothing.. he completely disappeared.. never called me again. I heard he had met someone else, at a baseball tournament (they were both playing baseball) .. and they got married the next year... never heard back from him.. So maybe the same thing happened with you.. maybe he was dating more than one girl... and he chose someone else.. it sucks... it's life.
LoveDeluxe78 Posted July 11, 2008 Posted July 11, 2008 Oh OK.. I went back and read your initial post.. I wrote a post somewhere (forgot which thread) about my very first encounter with a guy 18 yr younger... I met him at a 'single dinner'... he was one of the most beautiful guy I've seen to this date.. probably my 3rd best looking dude... anyway.. we dated 'intensely' for about 4-5 weeks... then POUF.. nothing.. he completely disappeared.. never called me again. I heard he had met someone else, at a baseball tournament (they were both playing baseball) .. and they got married the next year... never heard back from him.. So maybe the same thing happened with you.. maybe he was dating more than one girl... and he chose someone else.. it sucks... it's life. Yeah, probably same thing! Ugh, we haven't even hooked up yet! lol And he is by far, the most beautiful guy to me right now! The 2nd hottest one was a 21 year old I met a couple of years ago who was a Marine....
Javelin Posted July 11, 2008 Posted July 11, 2008 Wow, this thread is far too hard to keep up with! ha ha! Yes, his behavior didn't completely turn me off. And he did have some lovely qualities. I think I understand his mentality and actions so well. I really don't think I would go out with him again however. Though I understand why he is as he is, it doesn't change the fact that he still behaves like an infant. The whole delete me, then add me back to his IM illustrates that. I don't have the patience right now for the drama, and he has shown me that's what he'd be bringing. And lots of it! I find him entertaining though. And it's fun to sit back and see how this is unfolding now. Hehe, yeah, I think you're right about the whole drama queen issue. Yep, I would sit back and watch it too!
Author Alpha Female Posted July 11, 2008 Author Posted July 11, 2008 Wow, this thread is far too hard to keep up with! Hehe, yeah, I think you're right about the whole drama queen issue. Yep, I would sit back and watch it too! ha ha! yea, he wrote me again today asking if I would reconsider. And that he still feels badly about what happened. I just told him it was too much of a rocky start and I'd rather take a pass. Plus, I've already had two dates with a new guy, so I don't need the kiddie drama. Lizzie - love your stories! And I love your attitude. You are large and in charge and know full well how to work it for yourself. Love it!
bones1 Posted July 11, 2008 Posted July 11, 2008 Sublime, Yes that guy must be an amazing mind reader. I mean he addressed everything that was spoken about on this message board in 1 paragraph! Can you imagine going on a date, just not being interested, then the other person rips you for a week on a message board? And then they create FAKE emails that you supposedly had sent them? Now which person do you really think has the "issues". Some women just can't handle rejection. It get really ugly..
Jilly Bean Posted July 11, 2008 Posted July 11, 2008 ha ha! yea, he wrote me again today asking if I would reconsider. And that he still feels badly about what happened. I just told him it was too much of a rocky start and I'd rather take a pass. Plus, I've already had two dates with a new guy, so I don't need the kiddie drama. LOL. SO not surprised! This is SO like the stories my sister tells me about, Alpha. Some younger guys bite off more than they can chew, totally screw up, then try and right the situation. Bleh. Glad to hear you have moved on to greener pastures.
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