CandyGirlXO Posted July 8, 2008 Posted July 8, 2008 So this MIGHT be a stupid question, but I believe that NO question is stupid. I am recently SINGLE, and I was wondering where most couples meet each other. I have ALWAYS meet my EXBF’s in school, but since now I am done with college, and I work with a bunch of females, where am I supposed to meet anyone? Advice?
gummybear Posted July 8, 2008 Posted July 8, 2008 For a long time since I started working I was single because it was hard to meet people...I dated a coworker but he turned out to be a jerk! I was scared to try online dating cuz I always thought only desperate or weird people did it, but I guess I became DESPERATE enough haha and I tried and got 2 amazing bfs out of it.
bluepoppy Posted July 8, 2008 Posted July 8, 2008 Selection of places 1) friends of friends. It's amazing how many single gal friends have single guy friends they like but don't have chemistry with - although at the same time it can be shocking to see who your single gal friends will try and set you up with. With a relaxed attitude this works. When friends meet up in groups for films etc and just mix in their single gal and guy friends. 2) Hobbies - have met guys in adult ed - like art classes, writing, language classes that kind of thing. 3) Sports clubs - am a climber - current b/f met through climbing club. I'd actually say the easiest way to meet to new people is to forget about meeting new people but just go out doing the stuff you enjoy the most.
Lauriebell82 Posted July 9, 2008 Posted July 9, 2008 how would you meet someone through the internet? A dating site, like eharmony or match.com I agree with what bluepoppy said in her post. I personally met my boyfriend at the gym, so that's something we can share and that we have in common. Also, places like bookstores or internet cafes are good places to meet people as well. Not that they are pick up joints or anything but just striking up a conversation with someone is good. I agree that you should forget so much about searching for a bf and just enjoy things that you like..chance meetings are always possible!
Author CandyGirlXO Posted July 9, 2008 Author Posted July 9, 2008 Yeah I know I just need to stop worrying about it, and go on with my day like normal. But I just can't seem to stop thinking about it. I am always wondering when and how etc.... I just need to chill out and breath for a while. Can you tell I have NEVER been single?!?!
Peter_pan Posted July 10, 2008 Posted July 10, 2008 lol same here. i am in the same boat! i do guy things like MMA fighting etc so im never gonna meet girls there lol book stores, book stores.... hehe
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