ajuliafan Posted July 8, 2008 Posted July 8, 2008 My boyfriend broke up with about 2 weeks ago then we said we try again but a week into it, he wanted to talk and I jumped the gun thinking he was trying to break up again. Well I took a couple of day away and then contacted him as a friend. I keep the conversation light untilhe started talking about us a couple. He started telling me he is miserable and loney etc... This made me hope for us getting back together. I asked him to come over and talk to me, plus he could pickup his stuff he left at my place. We talked. We learned about each other and at the end I said I need you to tell me I don't have a chance so I can move on. He said he couldn't do that, but that he didnt know what he wanted. We stopped the serious talk and continued to watch TV. It seemed like he didnt want to leave.. finally he kissed me and we started getting heavy but thenhe stopped. Then he started again. In the end we did hook up. He text me when he go home and has continued to text me today but its been light. I don't wnat to ask what all this means but Im still super confused. I feel like nothing has been resolved. So... Do I play it cool, be his friend, hang out and maybe we will end up together or Do I ask if regrets the sex so I know if I can move on??? I don't want to waste time trying to winhim back if I dont have a chance. Guys your advice would be greatly appericated.
sid3 Posted July 9, 2008 Posted July 9, 2008 No more sex until he knows what he wants. I wouldn't want to be intimate with a woman knowing she wasn't sure what she wanted, while sex is good, it would add to my emotional suffering if she jumped ship. I think you should be protecting your heart in case things don't work out.
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