kizik Posted July 8, 2008 Share Posted July 8, 2008 We can't kick him off. But I'm tired of playing Mr. Nice Guy to a 4-year-old. And I don't care if any of you think I'm an as*hole, this guy's occasional niceties are far outweighed by his tantrums and detriment to the site. Link to post Share on other sites
serendip Posted July 8, 2008 Share Posted July 8, 2008 Thia isnt true, he's said thank you many times. Hes also complimented many posts (including one of yours i think) and told people he can totally sympathize Beyond that he's one of the most talented posters in terms of expression Ive seen and who are you to kick him off? Umm...he's actually been kicked off or banned from this site...about 4 or 5 times now I don't really have a problem with the dude....except for when he talks about choking and beating his ex and the constant swearing Link to post Share on other sites
Jake Barnes Posted July 8, 2008 Share Posted July 8, 2008 We can't kick him off. But I'm tired of playing Mr. Nice Guy to a 4-year-old. And I don't care if any of you think I'm an as*hole, this guy's occasional niceties are far outweighed by his tantrums and detriment to the site.I dont see any detriment, in fact I think hes a valuable presence and if you dont like someone you can put them on the ignore function As for me I look forward to his posts. Hes genuine and human and doesnt pretend to be a robotic stoic Link to post Share on other sites
kizik Posted July 8, 2008 Share Posted July 8, 2008 Whatever, I've said my piece. Back to the OT, not handling it well - man up, don't think about her, and be social. Link to post Share on other sites
CHANTRESS Posted July 8, 2008 Share Posted July 8, 2008 My issue is the repetitive tantrums. This is a SUPPORT site..not an "enabling" site. After a while people will grow weary of seeing a grown man act like a 5 year old by "screaming' and swearing. Seriously, what does it accomplish? And no one expects him to be "robotic".........just SANE. Link to post Share on other sites
ioncebelieved Posted July 8, 2008 Share Posted July 8, 2008 I dont see any detriment, in fact I think hes a valuable presence and if you dont like someone you can put them on the ignore function As for me I look forward to his posts. Hes genuine and human and doesnt pretend to be a robotic stoic I have stuck up for him many times in the past and the other day when I woke up and read his post that she had called him and he ignored her, I WAS TRULY tickled to death for him!!!! I really felt like he was finally sticking up for himself. I like reading some of his stuff, but as K said it a lot of times DOES go unnoticed. I like to interact on here and try like hell to respond back to all who answer my posts. This board has done wonders for how I feel and deal with things. I even started feeling bad when he would get kicked off and reappear. It was GENIUS how he would reappear!!! I loved some of the shyt he would come back with. If he really wants all of our help and sympathy he needs to start with paying attention to those that respond and try to help. I am not joking here, I have a bunch of posts just to him and his situation. Link to post Share on other sites
vivrantflo Posted July 8, 2008 Share Posted July 8, 2008 I even started feeling bad when he would get kicked off and reappear. It was GENIUS how he would reappear!!! I loved some of the shyt he would come back with. If he really wants all of our help and sympathy he needs to start with paying attention to those that respond and try to help. I agree with this totally. Y amuses me.. and his clever screen names that he came up with, and his signature makes me laugh. But he does need to take it easy, and actually listen to the advice that's given to him. He actually made a post last week I believe which was actually enspiring, so I know he's an intelligent dude. He just really needs to relax, take a step back, and realize that he's in a much better position than he thinks. Kizik, much love to you man, keep posting. Link to post Share on other sites
kizik Posted July 8, 2008 Share Posted July 8, 2008 Kizik, much love to you man, keep posting. Much love to you, flo. Let's keep it real together and show some love to all, even if it is tough love sometimes. Link to post Share on other sites
Author FauxVowel Posted July 8, 2008 Author Share Posted July 8, 2008 Torch? Torch? You wanna talk about torches?????///// The only torch I carry around here is a LEADERSHIP torch!!!!!11111 I said I wasn't ever gonna talk to her and I HAVEN'T!!!!!!1111 She's called me FOUR TIMES now, and sent me THREE TEXT MESSAGES!!!!!111 And what do I do???? NOTHIN'''!!!!!!!!!111111 I come on here and type a bunch of crap!!!!!!!11111111111 What do YOU GUYS do?????/// HUH????? ANSWER????? CALL THEM BACK???? COME ON HERE AND BE ALL HAPPY????? I'm not even mad at you guys, I love you guys. I've posted that before in some other thread. I just dont always respond to everyone individually but i ****in love everyone on here. i was gonna make a ****in thread about it, but i thought i would forget someone but i ****in love underpants and vivrantflo or whatever his name his and likecharlotte and even kizik and ****ing ioncebelieve and orangehose and ****ing motive or whatever and ****ing that one chick whats her name always obsessing about her ex i cant remember right now and that candy chick is hot and serendip and young sid and i even was trying my very best to help out shipwrecked but he only hangs out in the break-up board, and they ban me from there so i can only hang out on the coping board but theres a whole bunch of other names like v33 he rules and replicator and nevermind oh yeah that one chicks name is sedgewick ha ha ha sorry j/k anyway i love you all theres a whole bunch of other names so when you read this and be like why the **** didnt Y mention my name please dont be all hurt cuz i love you too i will be back to my normal self, its just when she calls it makes it kinda hard love you all, The Y oh yeah and we cant forget Tony for always banning me! Link to post Share on other sites
Author FauxVowel Posted July 8, 2008 Author Share Posted July 8, 2008 Torch? Torch? You wanna talk about torches?????///// The only torch I carry around here is a LEADERSHIP torch!!!!!11111 I said I wasn't ever gonna talk to her and I HAVEN'T!!!!!!1111 She's called me FOUR TIMES now, and sent me THREE TEXT MESSAGES!!!!!111 And what do I do???? NOTHIN'''!!!!!!!!!111111 I come on here and type a bunch of crap!!!!!!!11111111111 What do YOU GUYS do?????/// HUH????? ANSWER????? CALL THEM BACK???? COME ON HERE AND BE ALL HAPPY????? I'm not even mad at you guys, I love you guys. I've posted that before in some other thread. I just dont always respond to everyone individually but i ****in love everyone on here. i was gonna make a ****in thread about it, but i thought i would forget someone but i ****in love underpants and vivrantflo or whatever his name his and likecharlotte and even kizik and ****ing ioncebelieve and orangehose and ****ing motive or whatever and ****ing that one chick whats her name always obsessing about her ex i cant remember right now and that candy chick is hot and serendip and young sid and i even was trying my very best to help out shipwrecked but he only hangs out in the break-up board, and they ban me from there so i can only hang out on the coping board but theres a whole bunch of other names like v33 he rules and replicator and nevermind oh yeah that one chicks name is sedgewick ha ha ha sorry j/k anyway i love you all theres a whole bunch of other names so when you read this and be like why the **** didnt Y mention my name please dont be all hurt cuz i love you too i will be back to my normal self, its just when she calls it makes it kinda hard love you all, The Y oh yeah and we cant forget Tony for always banning me! And to elaborate... I was gonna make another thread about how if any of you feel worthless or like no one gives a **** about you or whatever the hell you're feeling. Well that's bull****, cuz I was gonna say I won't ****ing forget these screen names, and it's helped a whole lot, so everybody in here rules for real, okay? Okay, good. Now **** them. Link to post Share on other sites
vivrantflo Posted July 8, 2008 Share Posted July 8, 2008 She's called me FOUR TIMES now, and sent me THREE TEXT MESSAGES!!!!!111 Dude, do you realize what this means here?? You're on her mind pretty much every day now. None of us know what she's thinking, but she IS thinking about you. Please stick to NC. I know it's hard to stop thinking about her. Im struggling with that myself. But trust me.. I have a feeling if u keep up the NC, you're going to have a face to face with her in the near future. Stay strong and thanks for the shoutout! Link to post Share on other sites
Author FauxVowel Posted July 8, 2008 Author Share Posted July 8, 2008 Dude, do you realize what this means here?? You're on her mind pretty much every day now. None of us know what she's thinking, but she IS thinking about you. Please stick to NC. I know it's hard to stop thinking about her. Im struggling with that myself. But trust me.. I have a feeling if u keep up the NC, you're going to have a face to face with her in the near future. Stay strong and thanks for the shoutout! Thank you man. You and underpants, oh and I forgot Teacher's Pet, he's good too, you guys give the best advice. And the other dudes on here, they're like my peers, i love them, but im doin better than them ha ha jk And the chicks on here. I love them all. Oh yeah, and that's the plan. Don't answer calls, and she will come over, but not sure if it will matter by then. Link to post Share on other sites
northstar1 Posted July 8, 2008 Share Posted July 8, 2008 Thank you man. You and underpants, oh and I forgot Teacher's Pet, he's good too, you guys give the best advice. And the other dudes on here, they're like my peers, i love them, but im doin better than them ha ha jk And the chicks on here. I love them all. Oh yeah, and that's the plan. Don't answer calls, and she will come over, but not sure if it will matter by then. Y - at some point, and you can't see it now, you won't care if she calls, or wants to come over, you'll have emotionally healed and moved on, and hopefully found someone new . Link to post Share on other sites
Author FauxVowel Posted July 8, 2008 Author Share Posted July 8, 2008 Y - at some point, and you can't see it now, you won't care if she calls, or wants to come over, you'll have emotionally healed and moved on, and hopefully found someone new . see. right there. i forgot northstar. shoot me now. Link to post Share on other sites
sid3 Posted July 9, 2008 Share Posted July 9, 2008 People get their panties twisted way too easily. Your ex is testing you to the limits. She'll be on her way over. It's only a matter of time. I'd bet on it. Your silence is driving her mad IMO. The silent treatment is really the worst feeling one can get when contact is ignored. Anyone reading this will surely have to agree, it doesn't send a message, it sends tons of them. It took a month for my ex to contact me, different situation, but the reasons are usually the same. Doesn't sound like your going to settle for anything less than a face to face, you shouldn't your the Y. Link to post Share on other sites
Peter_pan Posted July 9, 2008 Share Posted July 9, 2008 i think its ****ing great that she is chasing you. but hey, why shouldn't she be Link to post Share on other sites
critter909 Posted July 9, 2008 Share Posted July 9, 2008 Awesome, she deserves to chase! That's the best thing we can hear on here, we all want to be chased, I'm hella' jealous! Link to post Share on other sites
Author FauxVowel Posted July 9, 2008 Author Share Posted July 9, 2008 wtf I am NOT being chased. If she's chasing me, she's walking real damn slow. She called 2x on May 29, then sent the 3 texts, and that was all just to yell at me. Now she just called 2x on July 4th, but I haven't heard anything since. She must REALLY miss me. NOT. I still love you all though! Link to post Share on other sites
serendip Posted July 9, 2008 Share Posted July 9, 2008 wtf I am NOT being chased. If she's chasing me, she's walking real damn slow. She called 2x on May 29, then sent the 3 texts, and that was all just to yell at me. Now she just called 2x on July 4th, but I haven't heard anything since. She must REALLY miss me. NOT. I still love you all though! Y I'm curious as to why she contacted you on the 4th? Is there something you are not telling us...did you do something again. I mean the 2 calls and 3 texts were to yell at you for stalking her and reading her emails and senting her ex phone messages. So it's weird she would contact you unles you did something to initiate this contact. Link to post Share on other sites
Author FauxVowel Posted July 9, 2008 Author Share Posted July 9, 2008 Y I'm curious as to why she contacted you on the 4th? Is there something you are not telling us...did you do something again. I mean the 2 calls and 3 texts were to yell at you for stalking her and reading her emails and senting her ex phone messages. So it's weird she would contact you unles you did something to initiate this contact. No. The only thing I did was shut down her e-mail account (I was administrator) back in the 2nd week of June, so that's been a while. I think she was just drunk-dialing. I wish I knew. Link to post Share on other sites
serendip Posted July 9, 2008 Share Posted July 9, 2008 I think she was just drunk-dialing. Next time she calls...just ask "What are you wearing?" ...from then..just creep it up a bit more You aren't getting back together again since she is still doing things with Mr. W...so have some fun Link to post Share on other sites
vivrantflo Posted July 9, 2008 Share Posted July 9, 2008 You changed your celly number, so that's good. Ask your place of employment to block her number from your extension as well. You don't want to hear from her. She's a heartbreaker. Try to forget about her and move on Link to post Share on other sites
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