Lizzie60 Posted September 2, 2008 Posted September 2, 2008 Hi, it's been a while since I last posted, and my pathetic story remains the same. I want to ask the forum a question regarding intimacy in a relationship: How many relationships are in jeopardy because their mate is overweight? In a nut shell, my boyfriend says he wont be affectionate or intimate because of my weight. Dont get me wrong, I am FAR from obese, I just have your standard couple of extra pounds and could use some firming up. He said men are extremely visual creatures. Funny....before this guy I NEVER had a problem with any of that. Didnt seem to matter to my exhusband or assorted other exboyfriends. The lack of touch, a kiss, the embrace to be held, caressed, to be one with someone, it is so hard and I dont even want to tell you what it had done for what ever is left of my ego. Any input would be helpful! SGE Is he fit himself? or does he just want YOU to be fit and firm.. If he has a few extra pounds to lose also.. you might want to go to the gym together and prepare healthy meals together.. If you have a few extra pounds.. don't wait to have 50-60 extra pounds.. lose them NOW... that's how people get waaaayyy overweight.. they wait and wait.. and put the fat on.
Lishy Posted September 2, 2008 Posted September 2, 2008 Errrrrrr, why are you with this loser? He is narcissistic and verbally abusive and is making you feel like crap! Remind me why you are sticking around?
ed-205 Posted September 3, 2008 Posted September 3, 2008 I have always held the opinion that a woman who is moderately overweight is usually healthier and happier, (and therefore more attractive imho) than a woman who is a few pounds underweight, and worries about keeping herself that way. You deserve better.
jen's mind Posted September 4, 2008 Posted September 4, 2008 There is absolutely nothing wrong with you other than your choice of boyfriend. Men who love thick women and all their curves are out there. Love your body and you'll attract the ones who'll love it too!
ohmy3 Posted September 5, 2008 Posted September 5, 2008 hello! sorry to say, he sounds mean , sucks how this is such an issue 4 so many people, (not skinny) then you suck that be the press! gee, not worth a grain of life in my heart & sprit, is he FIT AN TRIM? even if so OH well! time for a new partner in your life if your are comfortable w/ you ! I mean inside SPIRT! he is a waste of time honey! do it not NOW not after I DO... take care good luck!
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