Trialbyfire Posted July 8, 2008 Posted July 8, 2008 Your comparison makes absolutely no sense. But I'm not surprised. Also I wasn't aware that feminism involves "chewing men up and spitting them out." Forgive me, though, as the definition I am familiar with involves sociopolitical reasoning. This is a maneater which is the complete opposite of a feminist.
JP77 Posted July 8, 2008 Posted July 8, 2008 This is a maneater which is the complete opposite of a feminist. I have a hatred for feminists in general, they are as irritating as religious nutcases. I enjoy being misogynistic in front of feminists, it's nice to watch them screw and get angry. I'm a fantastic wind up merchant.
Touche Posted July 8, 2008 Posted July 8, 2008 Knowing me I'll probably be posting while in early labor. I have to say some of the things guys say on here makes me terrified of how my baby will turn out. I hope he doesn't turn out like....some people.... I'm sure you will be posting while in labor. We regulars have no lives away from LS, don't ya know? As for the rest, don't be silly. You will have a lot of influence over your boy. He'll turn out just fine.
JP77 Posted July 8, 2008 Posted July 8, 2008 As for the rest, don't be silly. You will have a lot of influence over your boy. He'll turn out just fine. That's what chairman Mao's mother said about Chairman Mao.
Touche Posted July 8, 2008 Posted July 8, 2008 That's what chairman Mao's mother said about Chairman Mao. YIKES!
bish Posted July 8, 2008 Posted July 8, 2008 Yeah but who really cares what Touche and TBF think? I value their opinion quite highly.
StartingOver07 Posted July 8, 2008 Posted July 8, 2008 And kiddo, some of us work from home and have LOTS of free time. Don't be jealous That would be me, too. Although I mostly lurk. This thread has been eye-opening. It's odd that Touche and TBF are getting heat when their advice was spot on, imo. I don't read much from them that isn't, actually. LB - I am glad you and your bf worked it out. It does sound indeed as though you have come along way in the last year.
Trialbyfire Posted July 8, 2008 Posted July 8, 2008 Thanks bish and Startingover, that's really nice of both of you.
melodymatters Posted July 8, 2008 Posted July 8, 2008 I have a hatred for feminists in general, they are as irritating as religious nutcases. I enjoy being misogynistic in front of feminists, it's nice to watch them screw and get angry. I'm a fantastic wind up merchant. Dude, until you are the one who signs our paychecks, No one here is getting "wound up" simply because one moron doesn't believe in "equal work for equal pay".
Touche Posted July 8, 2008 Posted July 8, 2008 Yes, thanks Bish and StartingOver. Your comments were much appreciated. We need more men with your views on here Bish.
JP77 Posted July 8, 2008 Posted July 8, 2008 Dude, until you are the one who signs our paychecks, No one here is getting "wound up" simply because one moron doesn't believe in "equal work for equal pay". Totally, sister.
Author Lauriebell82 Posted July 8, 2008 Author Posted July 8, 2008 That would be me, too. Although I mostly lurk. This thread has been eye-opening. It's odd that Touche and TBF are getting heat when their advice was spot on, imo. I don't read much from them that isn't, actually. LB - I am glad you and your bf worked it out. It does sound indeed as though you have come along way in the last year. Thanks. We have come a long way and although no relationship is perfect I am really happy right now. I agree that my thread was an eye-opener. Little did I know it was going to turn into this 385 response. Next time I have an issue I know where to turn!!!
mental_traveller Posted July 8, 2008 Posted July 8, 2008 I think that is total bullsh*t. It's your home, too. If he wants to have a guys weekend, he can go get a hotel room. It makes no sense that you should be kicked out of your home just because he wants to get wasted with 7 guys. The guys wanting to get wasted should fund their own party and they should have it at a neutral location. I'm a guy who likes his drink, and even I agree with these posts. It's unreasonable to expect you to leave your own home. If they want to get trashed, they can hire a hotel room. There are 7 of them after all, it won't even cost much.
bish Posted July 9, 2008 Posted July 9, 2008 I can't believe this thread is still going on. This really isn't that big of a deal. If you want an enticing relationship drama read Leo's thread on the Infidelity forums. Plus they had a talk and all is well. If its that boring to you, why are you bothering to post?
daphne Posted July 9, 2008 Posted July 9, 2008 I have a hatred for feminists in general, they are as irritating as religious nutcases. I enjoy being misogynistic in front of feminists, it's nice to watch them screw and get angry. I'm a fantastic wind up merchant. From the posts I've read from you, you simply enjoy being misogynistic. And the fact that you enjoy creating dischord and drama, speaks volume about your character.
Lyssa Posted July 9, 2008 Posted July 9, 2008 High maintance women out in full force again. These feminist charged make me laugh, they are the offspring of joan rivers. Makes me wonder if you truly know the meaning of feminist.
OpenBook Posted July 9, 2008 Posted July 9, 2008 Just weighing in here. This whole thing makes me really uneasy. The way it came about, the way it played out, and even your reaction to it, Lauriebelle. What bothers me the most is the fact that not once have you mentioned any concern on your BF's part as to where you'll stay, who you'll hang out with, what you'll be doing that weekend. No recommendations, no offer to help make arrangements, no effort to make sure you'll be safe... not even a curious question. Just, "you really shouldn't be here." He got his way, so of course he's going to be conciliatory ("I feel bad" ) toward you during your "talk." If he's a typical guy, he'll be thinking in the back of his mind, either consciously or unconsciously, "Wow, there's no boundary here. What else can I get away with??" So the weekend will transpire, he'll have a great time, and everything'll be great between you two. Until the next time he doesn't want you around, and politely suggest that you make arrangements to stay elsewhere. What will you do then?
JP77 Posted July 9, 2008 Posted July 9, 2008 From the posts I've read from you, you simply enjoy being misogynistic. And the fact that you enjoy creating dischord and drama, speaks volume about your character. Okay, honey bunch, whatever you say now. You take care now. How do you know they're feminists? I imagine you state offensive phrases in front of women, not necessarily feminists. Makes you look really intelligent, I'm sure. You can't look intelligent, you either are, or you aren't. I'm not. End of discussion. Makes me wonder if you truly know the meaning of feminist. Of course I do, we can have a discussion about the suffragette movement, if that's what tickles your bumcheeks?
Lishy Posted July 9, 2008 Posted July 9, 2008 LB is happy now, she has resolved her problem and is happu with the result so why carry it on people? LB knows her man and her relatonship and all that matters is that SHE is happy. Just because others would not put up with what her boyfriend did it does not mean it is wrong for her to do so. We are all victims of our past experience's and we all give advice based on it. As long as LB feels her problem has been resolved and she is happy with it then job done! Why does every thread have to turn into childish bickering between posters who do not like each other?
JP77 Posted July 9, 2008 Posted July 9, 2008 LB is happy now, she has resolved her problem and is happu with the result so why carry it on people? LB knows her man and her relatonship and all that matters is that SHE is happy. Just because others would not put up with what her boyfriend did it does not mean it is wrong for her to do so. We are all victims of our past experience's and we all give advice based on it. As long as LB feels her problem has been resolved and she is happy with it then job done! Why does every thread have to turn into childish bickering between posters who do not like each other? Good.Old.British.Diplomacy.
Lishy Posted July 9, 2008 Posted July 9, 2008 Good.Old.British.Diplomacy. Are. You. Stalking. Me. Mr.?
JP77 Posted July 9, 2008 Posted July 9, 2008 Are. You. Stalking. Me. Mr.? Ha. No, I'm participating in this thread, I was actually mocking you, for making such a pretentious post. Don't look in the trees. I'm up one of those stalking you.
Lishy Posted July 9, 2008 Posted July 9, 2008 How was that post pretentious? People get so hot and bothered over things that do not concern them! The girl has resolved it so job done, dont you agree? Hey I thought it was a coconut up that tree! Guess I was wrong!!!!!!! You coconut stalker! lol
Author Lauriebell82 Posted July 9, 2008 Author Posted July 9, 2008 LB is happy now, she has resolved her problem and is happu with the result so why carry it on people? LB knows her man and her relatonship and all that matters is that SHE is happy. Just because others would not put up with what her boyfriend did it does not mean it is wrong for her to do so. We are all victims of our past experience's and we all give advice based on it. As long as LB feels her problem has been resolved and she is happy with it then job done! Why does every thread have to turn into childish bickering between posters who do not like each other? thanks! A lot of my threads turn into bickering, maybe its the subject I post about or something. This thread is great though, in the aspect that I found a lot of people had some really good points of view and suggestions about how to handle the situation.
Woggle Posted July 9, 2008 Posted July 9, 2008 He shouldn't have kicked you out of the house but it doesn't sound like that is what he intended anyway. Both of you have every right to your own lives and your own friends though. Just because a person is in a relationship does not mean that the rest of their life stops and that they cut off the people that meant something to them before they met. He has every right to have this party but you should not have to leave the house.
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