carrie3107 Posted July 7, 2008 Posted July 7, 2008 After giving myself a couple of months break from my previous relationship. I've started to look at the prospect of a new relationship. There's a lad that ive been talking to and have met up on a couple of occassions, gone for drinks and had a couple of kisses, weve texted a couple of times. He seems nice. I've told him that i dont want to rush into another relationship. ( My previous relationship we were living together after being together 2 weeks). Ive told him would like to have a laugh and after a while possible relationship (dont want to make the same mistakes) Im trying not to stress when he's not texting me.... (I texted him yesturday saying "You must have had a rough nite. Your not proping up the bar" ) but havent had a text back off him. Im trying to play it cool!!!! I know that its only a text and shouldnt worry about it, but with previous relationships i seem to get stressed if someone doesnt text back!!! (Im the same with friends). Trying not to worry, but hate the start of something new possibly starting.... Shouldnt new relationships be something new, exciting and fun ???
kizik Posted July 7, 2008 Posted July 7, 2008 It's natural to expect to hear back from someone, even if it's just a friend. Obviously there is a bit of tension when you're waiting to hear from a romantic interest. I think the fact that you are stressing, though, may mean you are not ready. I advise against texting him at all, and letting him be the complete pursuer of you.
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