kingofclubs856 Posted July 7, 2008 Posted July 7, 2008 Ok well about a couple of days ago my girlfriend broke up with me after two years becuz she wasnt attracted to me anymore later that night she came back to me telling me she made a big mistake wants to still be with me loves me but is still not attracted to me so she wants a break until she regains her feelings ... at this point i dont no what to do .. how do i become attractive again i mean i gained like 5 pounds thats bout it i still look the same ... and also she has been bothering me lately becuz she is constantly trying to change me she tells me that she likes serious man more than man that is always making jokes .. i feel like she is trying to change a big part of me ... i love to laugh and make ppl laugh ... i love to smile ... making jokes all the time r apart of me .... i love her and dont want to lose her but she is asking me to change who i am ... ugh what do i do plz help ... do you change yourself for the person you love????
justaman99 Posted July 7, 2008 Posted July 7, 2008 do you change yourself for the person you love???? No you don't. You are who you are. A guy who likes to have fun and make people laugh. That is ingrained in you. If she doesn't like that and wants something else she needs to find it in another man.
Mango308 Posted July 7, 2008 Posted July 7, 2008 I think if she doesn't like you for who you are, your better off finding someone that will. Otherwise you will never be happy in the relationship.
Woggle Posted July 7, 2008 Posted July 7, 2008 Just let her go and find a woman who will love you for who you are.
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