TurtlePower Posted July 6, 2008 Posted July 6, 2008 Recently at work there is this girl in her 20s who I have known for a little over a couple years now is pretending that her and I are engaged. Up until about six months or so, I have noticed she has been talkative more me. She deliberately calls me darling, honey bunny, or whatever gagging moniker you could think of and makes no bones about mentioning it to a lot of people. She frequently is affectionate and flirtatious, rubbing my back, grabbing my arms, dancing and bending over directly in front of me (I thought that is what baboons do, but I digress...). The funny thing is that she always talks about this other guy in her life that she currently isn't dating him. She is pretty cute, I don't know if I would want to date her though. I am curious to see if this is her subtle way of saying she wants more with me or is it just innocent fun. Either way, it's weird. Thanks ahead of time.
SeraBella Posted July 7, 2008 Posted July 7, 2008 She's pretending you are engaged????? That is crazy! And you're trying to figure out if you want to date her? Why would you want to date someone who is telling people you are engaged when you aren't even dating????
CarDude2015 Posted July 7, 2008 Posted July 7, 2008 Pretending to be engaged? Now that is pretty freaking messed up.
Arise_Serpentor Posted July 12, 2008 Posted July 12, 2008 Did she say she was pretending to be engaged to you or did you come to this conclusion on your own? It is so wrong either way! You should talk to her and straighten her out! Or are you leading her on yourself!!!?
Author TurtlePower Posted July 12, 2008 Author Posted July 12, 2008 I think all of this is her just having fun. But then again, what do I know, I'm posting here looking for advice. I still think she has feelings for me, but won't just commit to it yet, so in the mean time she is just having fun, hoping I say something. It seems elementary school I know, but in my experiences thus far with the fairer sex, they sure have shown me weird ways that they are attracted to me. But, this one is just odd. Doesn't bother me too much....yet. My rabbits are safe for now. I'm just curious to see if there is a subtle way of showing her interest in me...
Mary3 Posted July 13, 2008 Posted July 13, 2008 She is about as SUBTLE as an elephant sitting on a egg... What is so wrong with this girl that she would tell everyone you are engaged ? She has wishful thinking. You need to tell everyone you are NOT engaged. And STOP talking to her. Nuts.
Samari Posted July 13, 2008 Posted July 13, 2008 sounds like a psycho...Stole the words right out of my mouth.
stillafool Posted July 13, 2008 Posted July 13, 2008 Wasn't there another thread like this a week ago? Anyway, she is definitely playing with you. If it bothers you tell her to stop. She sounds like a "nut case".
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