AnLandy Posted July 6, 2008 Posted July 6, 2008 It has been one week since my fiance and I called off the engagement. So far, I am in a very strange place. Part of me is wondering why I'm not falling apart, another part of me misses him, and another part of me feels relieved that my life won't be changing so dramatically in the next few months. Despite the relief, I still have difficulty getting through the days, but it is becoming easier. Books seem interesting again. I've actually rented a few movies that I have taken my mind off of the situation. I have managed to keep busy. I am dreading the gaping hole of this week though. I am running out of ways to occupy my time. Maybe I should get away for a few days by myself, just pack the dogs in the car and head off to my place in the mountains? Or maybe I should head to the city, where I'll have more to occupy my time? I just don't know what to do with myself.
Luz Posted July 7, 2008 Posted July 7, 2008 When my long term relationship ended last year this month , I was exactly where you re at right now , not knowing what to do with myself . So restless . That was when i joined the gym , taking Yoga , whatever I could do at least to occupy one or 2 hours there , hanging out at the book stores reading , drinking coffee . I avoided being alone , particularly at nights when things seemed to be worse . I took 10 days off work , went on a vacation with my sister at a far , far a way place place where contacting him would be very challenging . It took a while but soon I established my own routines and started to think less and less of him .
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