roghornio Posted July 6, 2008 Posted July 6, 2008 hello. I met this great girl recently at a party. She took my number and was the one who got in touch with me. So after a week or so of texting we arranged to meet up. Was really good, no awkward silence, lots of laughing, had a really good few hours. At the end i had to go meet some friends as i was off to a gig. She walked me their and we had a quick kiss. Now i thought it all went well. I stupidly texted her a couple hours later and a few drinks later saying it was nice to see her again and hope she had a good night with her friends. Thing is she never replied, that was a couple days ago. I would have thought if she was interested she would have replied! So the question is, do i wait a few days and call or text or something? If i want to see her again i guess i should ask or should i sound her out with some chat first?
bones1 Posted July 6, 2008 Posted July 6, 2008 Not sure if it would have mattered or not, but texting is always a weaker way to go. I don't think it exhibits much confidence.
torranceshipman Posted July 6, 2008 Posted July 6, 2008 If Im really into a guy, I'd love it if he was that upfront! My current bf acted like that and I loved it! Its not a great sign that she didnt reply to your txt, but i think its worth a call to see whats up! Speak with her or leave her a voicemail and ask her out, then see what happens. Good luck! And for the record, this playing it cool and waiting 3 days to call or whatever...I think thats crapola. You are a good guy in showing your confident enough to express an interest upfront - I think that shows confidence in a man - and if she doesnt respond, she was never that interested so playin it cool wouldnt have made a diffrence.
Author roghornio Posted July 7, 2008 Author Posted July 7, 2008 Well i thought i give it a try - i text her last night asking how her weekend was... no reply. All a bit bizzare behaviour - i would have expected even a thanks but no thanks kind of thing. Dunno what happened there. Oh well, back to the drawing board
Author roghornio Posted July 7, 2008 Author Posted July 7, 2008 well she did reply, so all good. But what is strange is i just got another text from her but its dated the night we went out and is a reply to my original text i sent that night. Which was days ago wtf lol... Very strange.
backto1 Posted July 7, 2008 Posted July 7, 2008 well she did reply, so all good. But what is strange is i just got another text from her but its dated the night we went out and is a reply to my original text i sent that night. Which was days ago wtf lol... Very strange. It's too bad you didn't freak out and leave her a mean, threatening message for not returning your text. That would have been a good read. But really, that's why phone calls are the best way to go.
torranceshipman Posted July 7, 2008 Posted July 7, 2008 Maybe her phone/network is crappy, or maybe yours is if that txt was delayed... Either way she sounds interested so I hope you asked her out
Author roghornio Posted July 7, 2008 Author Posted July 7, 2008 thankfully i did not leave a angry message for why she did not reply. I already answered her text before i got the orginol reply. But ill leave it till mid week and ask her out. On a side note i was out with my best friend tonight who runs a popular bar in town. He sais my ex is mad about me cause she always asking what i up to and i such a great guy and i changed her life. she dumped me around six moths ago. I did not want ten hear that. Now i think i might have to see what she up to after all this time. To be honest i would like to pursue the now girl. The universe works in strange ways!!
Author roghornio Posted July 9, 2008 Author Posted July 9, 2008 Well two things have happened here… I asked the girl if she wanted to meet up on the weekend and she has kind of blown me out! She sais she is busy and might have to rain check… so im taking that as a negative. Balls in her court. I also STUPIDLY asked the ex if she wanted to catch up after what my friend said – she said she would want to meet up but is dating someone , but still would be nice to meet up. Probably not a good idea... So today I feel like I have been kicked in the bollocks twice LOL
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